{"id":51,"date":"2014-01-08T06:02:05","date_gmt":"2014-01-08T06:02:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=51"},"modified":"2026-03-05T17:19:31","modified_gmt":"2026-03-05T16:19:31","slug":"fantastic-foreplay-tips-havent-tried","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/fantastic-foreplay-tips-havent-tried\/","title":{"rendered":"Fantastic Foreplay Tips You Haven\u2019t Tried"},"content":{"rendered":"

One of the secrets to a more satisfying sex life is by mastering more enjoyable foreplay. And while we here at LELO treat foreplay as serious business (because it is<\/i> our business after all \u2013 and business is good<\/i>), having even more fun before you get frisky is a great way to connect with your partner; so take it from us, and you\u2019ll be a foreplay pro in no time!
\nBut first\u2026<\/p>\n

Why is Foreplay Important?<\/h2>\n

Here\u2019s the thing; while a guy can take just 3 minutes to orgasm during sex<\/a>, we ladies need a little more time and TLC to get us to climax. The orgasmic plateau \u2013 where climax is imminent \u2013 takes most women more than double the time it takes for men, so the added intimacy of a little foreplay can go a long way to your complete intimate enjoyment.
\nWith that in mind, we\u2019ll begin by looking at how we can extend foreplay<\/b> to where you\u2019re ready to enjoy a satisfying climax<\/a><\/span>, and making him absolutely ravenous to get to the main event.<\/p>\n

Tip #1: Start Early<\/h2>\n

Send him a sultry sext<\/a><\/span> message to start off his day thinking about what you\u2019ll be doing to him at the end of it. After he\u2019s arrived at work \u2013 please don\u2019t encourage texting and driving \u2013 receiving a message from you saying something along the lines of \u2018I can\u2019t wait for you to come back tonight so I can rock your world!\u2019<\/i> will have his mind racing until it\u2019s time to punch out.
\nHaving trouble thinking of the right words to send to your partner in sexual crime? Check out our list of tried and tested Best Example Sexts<\/a><\/span> to get your creative juices flowing.<\/p>\n

Tip #2: Positive Reinforcement<\/h2>\n

When you\u2019re in the middle of foreplay, use the power of communication and tell him what it is you like and how you enjoy being touched. For example, whisper that you \u2018love being touched here\u2019 and then guide his hand to wherever that may be for you. Knowing that he\u2019s doing something right will make him want to keep doing it for the sole reason that he knows you like it \u2013 simple, right?<\/p>\n

Tip #3: Foreplay Flash Cards<\/h2>\n

Think of nine things you want him to do to you, and nine things he\u2019ll want you to do to him and write them on index cards of different colors \u2013 pink for you, blue for him. Place them all face down on the bed, then take turns drawing cards and enacting what each one says, and this will add an air of tantalizing anticipation to the proceedings.<\/p>\n

Tip # 4: Hands-free Massage<\/h2>\n

Give him the greatest rub-down of his life\u2026 without using your hands. Stroke his entire body with your breasts and tummy, massage oil optional. Straddle him either from the front or back and drape your hair over his chest or back while both of you adopt a strict no-touch policy the entire time (which is probably easier said than done in his case, making a pair of handcuffs<\/a><\/span> or pleasure ties<\/a><\/span> a good item to keep in your toy box).<\/p>\n

Tip #5: Put On a Toy Show<\/h2>\n

Take out your favorite sex toy and have him stimulate your clitoris<\/a> while he kisses you where you want to be kissed the most, or drive him absolutely wild by simply letting him watch you enjoy yourself with it. Incorporating a toy into your sex life will go a long, long way to bridging the gap between your orgasm and his, bringing you closer to coming together<\/a><\/span> than ever before.<\/p>\n

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Enjoy 15% off LELO.com<\/a> with code VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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One of the secrets to a more satisfying sex life is by mastering more enjoyable foreplay. And while we here at LELO treat foreplay as serious business (because it is our business after all \u2013 and business is good), having even more fun before you get frisky is a great way to connect with your partner; so take it from us, and you\u2019ll be a foreplay pro in no time! But first\u2026 Why is Foreplay Important? 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