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It used to be that couples would wait until their wedding night for the chance to finally experience each other sexually.<\/p>\n

This thankfully is not the case anymore, especially considering\u00a0our own data<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>surmising that the average couple will be together for nearly 3 years before becoming engaged. Then, the majority of engagement periods last between 12-18 months, meaning that your relationship is about 4 years old before it\u2019s even officially and legally binding.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get us wrong, this is a reassuring societal shift that allows couples to make extra sure that they\u2019ve chosen the right life partner and are compatible in all the important ways. 4 years however is enough time for a sexual comfort zone with someone become a romantic routine, and we\u2019re suggesting some ideas to\u00a0spice up your lovemaking<\/a>, if only for one night; your wedding night.<\/p>\n

Take a Break<\/h2>\n

<\/b>So you\u2019ve been intimate together way too many times to count, but anticipation is still enough to drive even the most familiar partners crazy. So in the weeks or days before your wedding, avoid having sex and sexual contact \u2013 depending on your sexual frequency, you both can decide how long this break should be.<\/p>\n

Take it even further by issuing a ban on even seeing each other naked, and even further still by agreeing to forego self-pleasure in the run-up to the ceremony. This is a really basic idea for making your wedding night sex even better, but a wholly-effective one nonetheless.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Leave it for Last<\/h2>\n

<\/b>Whether your wedding is a formal affair or a low-key event, it\u2019s still a big day that will most likely leave both of you drained at the end of the day \u2013 enough so that half of all newlyweds don\u2019t even have sex on their wedding night.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to sneak off during the reception for some time alone together; the great thing about parties is that they can go on without the guests of honor, and groomsmen and bridesmaids are there to explain away any momentary absence anyhow, so you\u2019re covered.<\/p>\n

Get a Room, You Two<\/h2>\n

<\/b>While tropical locales and a frolic through Europe are the most common places for a honeymoon, you\u2019d be surprised at the number of couples who simply head home together after their reception. To make you wedding night sex, and the sex for your first few days and man and wife stand out, get out of your element.<\/p>\n

If international travel isn\u2019t on the table, opt for a staycation instead and head to a local hotel for a few days. The new surroundings offer a whole new freshness to your carnal affairs as newlyweds by taking you out of the everyday and into an all-new place you can share together.<\/p>\n

Let Him Carry You<\/h2>\n

<\/b>No matter how many of the wedding clich\u00e9s you\u2019ll try to avoid with your one-of-a-kind ceremony, keep the \u2018being carried across the threshold\u2019 one intact. It\u2019s a small gesture that literally sweeps you off your feet, which is a great thing because you\u2019ve probably been on them all day long!<\/p>\n

Something New<\/h2>\n

<\/b>\u2018Something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue\u2019 is what a bride needs to be wearing for some added luck on her wedding day, but there\u2019s no reason not to take your \u2018something new\u2019 into the bedroom as well.<\/p>\n

Your wedding night, or the nights that follow during your honeymoon, are the perfect time to debut a new item to spice up your sensual sharing, and one that you can enjoy together for a number of years to come. We\u2019ve got\u00a0a number of items<\/a> for sharing with your dearly beloved, all covered under a 10-year warranty that ensures that it will still be in your lives by the time of your Tin Anniversary.<\/p>\n

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Enjoy 15% off LELO.com<\/a> with code VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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It used to be that couples would wait until their wedding night for the chance to finally experience each other sexually. This thankfully is not the case anymore, especially considering\u00a0our own data\u00a0surmising that the average couple will be together for nearly 3 years before becoming engaged. Then, the majority of engagement periods last between 12-18 months, meaning that your relationship is about 4 years old before it\u2019s even officially and legally binding. 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