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It\u2019s not just the bride-to-be who\u2019s bound to be getting lucky on her wedding night; the findings in\u00a0our latest infographic<\/a><\/span>\u00a0shows that that attending a wedding are just as likely as the newlyweds during or after the ceremony.<\/p>\n

While we don\u2019t need to tell you how to charm your way into some nuptial nooky, we will tell you our tried-and-true secrets that will make sure your wedding hookup goes smoothly.<\/p>\n

DO Dress Sensibly<\/h2>\n

<\/b>We\u2019re not talking about being approachable (because you already knew that), but we are talking about having easy access to get in to and out of an intimate situation with ease.<\/p>\n

What we mean of course is to wear items that are fast and easy to take off, and to put back on again. This means to avoid Spanx, fashion tape, bow ties, cummerbunds nipple bandages \u2013 and even a corset, if that\u2019s your thing. The idea is to be ready for anything that arises, whether it\u2019s a sexual encounter \u2013 or an interruption to your sexual encounter.<\/p>\n

DON\u2019T Shirk Your Responsibilities<\/h2>\n

<\/b>Whether you\u2019re giving a toast to the happy couple or doing a shift at the guest book table, that task takes precedent over a risky romantic rendezvous \u2013 no matter how tempting (or time-sensitive) it may be. The wedding reception will (hopefully) go on all night, giving you ample time to slip away to do your own thing.<\/p>\n

DO Have a Getaway Plan<\/h2>\n

<\/b>Have all your logistics planned out ahead of time when it comes to getting home from the reception; your best bet is keeping taxi fare somewhere on your person. The worst thing to happen would be if your hookup time is close at hand\u2026 just when your ride home declares it\u2019s time to leave.<\/p>\n

DON\u2019T Choose Someone too Close to the Bride or Groom<\/h2>\n

No matter how hot her big brother or how foxy best-maid is, taking their attention off the couple on their big day leaves you running the risk of a rift with your friend when all is said and done. Tread carefully and pick up on cues when you mention how great so-and-so looks in their tux \u2013 and then wait until the ceremony is done and the \u2018JUST MARRIED\u2019 car has pulled away from the reception.<\/p>\n

DO Come Prepared<\/h2>\n

You remembered to put on no-run mascara for the possibility of waterworks later on, so the least you could do is keep a condom in your purse or inner jacket pocket; you know, just in case. Could there be anything worse than laying all that groundwork, getting to the point of no return to realize that neither of you has one? That\u2019s one of those classic \u2018all dressed up with nowhere to go\u2019 situations if we\u2019ve ever heard one.<\/p>\n

Our final piece of advice is for the catching of the bouquet or garter, and it\u2019s really simple; elbows up.<\/p>\n

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Enjoy 15% off LELO.com<\/a> with code VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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It\u2019s not just the bride-to-be who\u2019s bound to be getting lucky on her wedding night; the findings in\u00a0our latest infographic\u00a0shows that that attending a wedding are just as likely as the newlyweds during or after the ceremony. While we don\u2019t need to tell you how to charm your way into some nuptial nooky, we will tell you our tried-and-true secrets that will make sure your wedding hookup goes smoothly. 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