{"id":8853,"date":"2014-11-27T12:09:10","date_gmt":"2014-11-27T04:09:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog?p=8853&#038;preview_id=8853"},"modified":"2026-03-07T06:16:19","modified_gmt":"2026-03-07T05:16:19","slug":"bottoms-up-first-date-drinks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/","title":{"rendered":"Bottoms Up! Which First Date Drinks To Order and To Avoid"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When we think of classically sexy drinks, most of us think of fine red wines or a Manhattan, but what are the drinks that can actually help or hurt your sex on date night?<\/p>\n<h2>Good Libations<\/h2>\n<h3>1. La Vie En Rouge<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re off to a good start with the sexy name, but this holiday cocktail also adds a benefit to your libido. It brings together the aromatic herb rosemary, Grand Marnier and cranberry juice, which we already know is a fantastic source of antioxidants, but it also Vitamin C which helps synthesize sex hormones.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-9031 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/The-GBC-Gin-Basil-Cucumber-3-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"The-GBC-Gin-Basil-Cucumber-3\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/The-GBC-Gin-Basil-Cucumber-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/The-GBC-Gin-Basil-Cucumber-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/The-GBC-Gin-Basil-Cucumber-3.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/strong>2. Basil Gin Fizz<\/h3>\n<p>Not just for pesto anymore, basil adds a strong punch to any cocktail, as well as a ton of libido-lifting vitamins and minerals. It\u2019s an excellent source of Vitamin A, which is needed for sex-hormone production, and magnesium which regulates estrogen production and lessens anxiety. It also happens to taste fantastic, and the sexy tingle of soda water in your mouth doesn\u2019t hurt.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Dark\u2019n\u2019Stormy<\/h3>\n<p>There\u2019s much debate about whether or not the Moscow Mule has been played out (many bartenders seem to think it is), so thank goodness for old favorites like the Dark\u2019n\u2019Stormy. This classic from Bermuda mixes dark rum (Gosling\u2019s, ideally) with the spicy kick of ginger beer. Extra points if the bar makes its own fresh ginger beer; ginger contains potassium and vitamin B-6 as well as manganese which gives a boost of testosterone to your sex drive.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-9047 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Bourbon-Rickey-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Bourbon-Rickey\" width=\"240\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Bourbon-Rickey-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Bourbon-Rickey-55x55.jpg 55w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Bourbon-Rickey.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/strong>4. Rickey<\/h3>\n<p>While usually made with gin or bourbon, the Rickey can essentially be made with anything; the crucial element is the addition of half a squeezed lime. The burst of citrus (containing Vitamin C, of course) has shown to make your body odor naturally fresher. It\u2019s kept light with soda water and no or little added sugar, which is good for those prone to hangovers.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Beer<\/h3>\n<p>OkCupid statistics show that those who say they enjoy beer are 60% more likely to have sex on the first date (even if they don\u2019t imbibe on the actual date!)<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-9011 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Beer-Tasting-Wauconda-300x196.jpg\" alt=\"Beer-Tasting-Wauconda\" width=\"300\" height=\"196\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Beer-Tasting-Wauconda-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Beer-Tasting-Wauconda.jpg 580w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>There\u2019s no need to order a beer if you don\u2019t like it much, but there a lot of different types out there. If you\u2019re at a venue that has an extensive beer list, it can be fun to try some new brews. To keep in mind, beers with citrus notes are generally quite safe, but some Belgian fruit beers you may find too sweet to enjoy for a whole pint. Darker beers tend to have higher percentage of alcohol (the ABV is often listed) but don\u2019t shy from trying one! Many may be described as having notes of chocolate or coffee.<\/p>\n<h2>In Bad Taste<\/h2>\n<h3>1, Harvey Wallbanger<\/h3>\n<p>Where do we start? This drink has a dreadful name, and the addition of Galliano and a\u00a0 maraschino cherry makes for over-the-top sweetness. As an added negative, the orange juice may increase your melatonin levels, causing you to nod off more easily.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-9007 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/olive-300x150.jpg\" alt=\"OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA\" width=\"236\" height=\"118\" \/><\/strong>2. Dirty Martinis<\/h3>\n<p>Sophisticated? Definitely. Delicious? Absolutely. However, olive breath is not an ideal on a date.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Vodka Red Bull<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe you and your date are planning (or hoping for) a late night. Before you opt for this clubbing standby, remember that excessive caffeine has been shown to decrease libido.<\/p>\n<h3>4, Bloody Mary<\/h3>\n<p>We love Bloody Marys as much as the next person, but we (grudgingly) realize there is a time and a place for them. Typically reserved for brunch or the early afternoon, this drink fills you up quickly when eaten with a meal, but is strong enough that you don\u2019t want to be drinking it on an empty stomach.<\/p>\n<h3>5, Anything with an umbrella<strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-9083\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/hang-er.jpg\" alt=\"hang er\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/hang-er.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/hang-er-55x55.jpg 55w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Whether you agree with the popular stigma surrounding overly-fruity cocktails such as Pi\u00f1a Coladas and Sex on the Beach or not, they are not usually your friend on the first date. Many of these drinks are heavily sweetened and mask the taste of the alcohol, which may be the basis of their appeal to many, but can lead to accidental over-drinking and one heck of a hangover.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>\u00a0But Don&#8217;t Forget&#8230;<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Enjoying a cocktail can certainly smooth over first date awkwardness (so can conversations about favorite cocktails, as we found out!) but it certainly isn\u2019t a requirement. If you\u2019re opting not to drink, or looking to cleanse your palate, sparkling water with twist of lime is the sophisticated choice.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Enjoy 15% off <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LELO.com<\/a> with code <span style=\"color: #800080;\">VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we think of classically sexy drinks, most of us think of fine red wines or a Manhattan, but what are the drinks that can actually help or hurt your sex on date night? Good Libations 1. La Vie En Rouge You\u2019re off to a good start with the sexy name, but this holiday cocktail also adds a benefit to your libido. It brings together the aromatic herb rosemary, Grand Marnier and cranberry juice, which we already know is a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":8995,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[531,525],"coauthors":[947],"class_list":["post-8853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-tips-advice","tag-advice","tag-better-sex"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.8.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Best First Date Drinks<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Exploring the best and worst of the most common social lubrication.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Best First Date Drinks\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Exploring the best and worst of the most common social lubrication.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Volont\u00e9\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/LELO.Official\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2014-11-27T04:09:10+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2026-03-07T05:16:19+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/first-date-drinks-2.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"660\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"330\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Donna Turner\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@Lelo_Official\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@Lelo_Official\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Donna Turner\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"4 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/\",\"name\":\"Best First Date Drinks\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/first-date-drinks-2.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2014-11-27T04:09:10+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2026-03-07T05:16:19+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/ee7d40fffc3a3ad51f9cb3b4fa664198\"},\"description\":\"Exploring the best and worst of the most common social lubrication.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/first-date-drinks-2.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/first-date-drinks-2.jpg\",\"width\":660,\"height\":330},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bottoms-up-first-date-drinks\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Volonte\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Sex Tips &amp; Advice\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-tips-advice\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":3,\"name\":\"Bottoms Up! 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