What is Outercourse?

Content Warning: This Article Discusses Sexual Trauma and Abuse. Please read with caution if this is a triggering topic...

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Sex After Kids: How To Rekindle the Flame in the Bedroom After Kids

Many couples suffer from having less sex after having kids. One of the latest Netflix shows, Sex/life, explores the...

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Compersion: The #1 Way to Succeed in Polyamory

Polyamory has as many perks as a garden’s got roses, and smells just as sweet. All that community, camaraderie, and...

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Audio Erotica Will Change the Way You Masturbate

Have you ever enhanced your pleasure with audio content? Allow yourself to be taken on a wave of gradual climax through...

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The Stigma Surrounding Bi+ Men

There’s a thing every bi+ person knows: nobody else believes in us. And out of everyone who falls under the pan/bi+...

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Have You Tried Forced Masturbation Without Even Knowing It?

Most of us don’t particularly like to be forced into doing things. But when it comes to forced masturbation,...

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Aftercare for Vanilla Sex: Why It’s Important and How to Do It Right

Anyone who had dabbled in some BDSM play knows the term “aftercare” well. It’s repeated over and over...

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What is a Brat in the BDSM Community?

We’re all familiar with the term ‘brat’, right? And often it comes with negative connotations. But in a twist,...

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The Science Behind Infidelity and Why People Cheat

Almost half of couples have dealt with or experienced infidelity in marriage. In the US, infidelity is the second...

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Bow Down to the Cuckqueen!

Perhaps the sassiest queen there is, being a cuckqueen can be entirely erotic… for those who get a thrill out of...

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Understanding The Difference Between Sex and Gender

We’re seeing a growing awareness and conversation around gender, how it comes into play in various aspects of our...

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Post-Orgasm Torture, the Gateway to Even More Sexual Bliss?

Sure, the word ‘torture’ doesn’t really seem all that appealing, especially for those who aren’t in the BDSM...

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Playing Student/Teacher at the Office – An Erotic Story

It was time to show him the side of me I’ve hidden for years, I told myself as I lifted a hand to knock on the...

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Faith and Masturbation: Interview with an Ex-Pastor

Hi Nikole. Thank you so much for joining us! Can you start by giving us a quick overview of your background in faith?...

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This Intimina X LELO Combo is *Chef’s Kiss* for Orgasm Day

Orgasms are good for you. Period. And we’re not just talking about pain relief.  Orgasms come with massive benefits,...

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Everything You Wanted to Know about Cervix Orgasms

Vaginas are truly amazing, hiding many different pleasure spots inside them. And yes, I mean more than the infamous...

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