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A Collection of the Most Recent Orgasm Research

July 7, 2020 Sexual Health

Science is important. Sex is important. We gathered the most recent compilation of research on the compelling and magical topic of… orgasms. Orgasm Equality: Scientific Findings and Societal …

J. R. Sa – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

July 7, 2020 LELO NEWS

Dear Younger Queer Self, I am sorry. You were but a child, praying to be seen, and yet you had to hide behind a mask of “normalcy”, a …

Lily – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

July 7, 2020 LELO NEWS

Hey girl. First off, slow the fuck down on the partying! You don’t need to do all your living before you hit 20! Also, I know about the …

Lock Lips This International Kissing Day

July 6, 2020 Sex Tips & Advice

Let’s face it – we all kiss, and prefer to be kissed, in different ways. It’s an artform of personal preference. There are people who use a lot …

Acacia West – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

July 5, 2020 LELO NEWS

Dear Younger Queer Self, The world has lied to you all these years. They’ve coiled up the truth and twisted it into a mess of lies that makes …

Initiating Spontaneous Surprise Sex

July 5, 2020 Love & Relationships, Sex Tips & Advice

It’s no secret that when couples have been together for a certain amount of time, the sexual energy changes. And that’s not to say that amazing sex isn’t …

Madison Jordan – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

July 4, 2020 LELO NEWS

You do not have to choose a side; this is not a game of badminton, even though hiding who you are feels like a sport right now. You …

Painful Sex And What To Do

July 4, 2020 Committed Relationship, Sexual Health

Experience pain during sex regularly can be a major obstacle to the happy development of a relationship. The anxiety of chronic pain can trigger avoidance behaviour, leading us …

Maddie Godfrey – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

July 3, 2020 LELO NEWS

Dear Younger Queer Self, Your queerness will not look like it does on television shows. A group of giggly and charismatic celebrities are not about to arrive at …

The Anatomy of the Hooha (And How It Corresponds to Your Pleasure)

July 3, 2020 Masturbation, Sexual Health

If you follow this blog, you likely have already seen the wonderful pieces on the vagina vs. the vulva and/or on the clitoris. But I want to talk …

CurvyBambi – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

July 2, 2020 LELO NEWS

Dear Younger Queer Self, The ideals of what you considered an inconsequential youth will not be lost on this world. You will be celebrated for the beautiful and …

True or False: Women Masturbate More When They’re in a Sexually Active Relationship?

July 2, 2020 Masturbation

You know that feeling when you get fanny flutters and there’s just no getting past it until you rub one out? Yeah, that’s definitely not just a ‘single’ …

Introducing Our “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Winners

July 1, 2020 LELO NEWS

There’s no how-to guide, no roadmap, no detailed manual. Everyone’s journey through discovering their sexuality looks a little bit different, but sharing our knowledge can help those who …

Shouldn’t Be Here Ch. 2 – An Erotic Series

July 1, 2020 EROTIC SERIALS

It had been a warm Summer night when we first met (isn’t it always?!). I remember the skin on my nose feeling tight from the day’s sun. My …

Take Pleasure into Your Own Hands for Orgasm Month!

July 7, 2020 Orgasm, Sex Toy Reviews

Your mind and body will tell you exactly what they need. All you have to do is listen. This July is Orgasm Month— and LELO is taking a …

Terry – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

June 30, 2020 LELO NEWS

As difficult as it may seem, you must love yourself and believe in your heart of hearts that there will be many others who love you, too. Being …

Luna Daydream – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

June 29, 2020 LELO NEWS

Dear Younger Queer Self, Queer looks different for everyone. Just because you don’t look a certain way, or act a certain way, doesn’t mean you’re any less queer …

Shouldn’t Be Here Ch.1 – An Erotic Series

June 29, 2020 EROTIC SERIALS

I shouldn’t be here. To tell the truth, I don’t know how I got here. I always found it an unnerving thing – to arrive at a destination …

Brecken – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story

June 28, 2020 LELO NEWS

Oh Dear, You have done it again. You have went against the grain, against the narrative. You are fifteen and can’t stop wondering why you have to like …

4 Weird After-Sex Effects That Are Totally Normal

June 28, 2020 Orgasm, Sexual Health

Sex is complicated. I often wonder if we knew that there were consequences up front, would we ever even bother with it at all? Some consequences are obvious: …

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