Succumbing to the Lifestyle of Total Power Exchange (TPE)

For some, giving up all control sounds like a nightmare. For others, it’s the ultimate form of freedom. So when two...

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“Yes, Mistress!” The Mistress-Slave Relationship, Explained

The majority of us have grown up in a world with imposed rules and regulations. And by following said-rules, we’re...

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Private & Professional BDSM Dungeons for Limitless Lust

You’re picturing the ‘Red Room’ from 50 Shades of Grey, aren’t you? And essentially, that is what a BDSM...

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A Starter Guide: What is a BDSM Scene?

So, you’re on a journey, learning the BDSM lingo and educating yourself about the different aspects of BDSM life. How...

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Breathing Down Someone’s Neck… in a Good Way! The Neck Fetish, Explained

There are a number of different things that can float one’s boat. We may not always find it arousing ourselves, but...

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Greek Sex: Just an Exotic Euphemism!

Perhaps everything sounds a bit more exotic when you think of Greece. Envision a picturesque island, spending time with...

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A Lil’ Bit of TLC: What is Sensual Domination?

Forget everything you may believe about domination and BDSM in the context of humiliation, discipline and pain. Sensual...

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The Female Gaze: The Thrill of Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM)

The notion itself: Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM), doesn’t exactly seem like anything special, does it? Picture a...

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Frotting, An Erotic Rub-a-Dub-Dub

Frotting… a new term you haven’t heard of? Rest assured, you know what it is, you may just have never heard the...

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Have You Tried Forced Masturbation Without Even Knowing It?

Most of us don’t particularly like to be forced into doing things. But when it comes to forced masturbation,...

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What is a Brat in the BDSM Community?

We’re all familiar with the term ‘brat’, right? And often it comes with negative connotations. But in a twist,...

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Bow Down to the Cuckqueen!

Perhaps the sassiest queen there is, being a cuckqueen can be entirely erotic… for those who get a thrill out of...

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Post-Orgasm Torture, the Gateway to Even More Sexual Bliss?

Sure, the word ‘torture’ doesn’t really seem all that appealing, especially for those who aren’t in the BDSM...

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Orgasm Denial, a Sexual Build-Up of Intense Pleasure

It may sound like a nightmare, but actually, engaging in orgasm denial (otherwise known as erotic sexual denial) is one...

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The Primal Fetish, Explained

To be primal is connected to primal urges, such as protecting oneself or others from harm. It’s often used as a means...

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Intimate and Powerful: Have You Tried the Amazon Sex Position?

Just like the powerful Amazon Rainforest, partaking in the Amazon sex position will have you and your partner...

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