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Sex Music So Good You’ll Want To Make Love To It

Everyone needs a sex playlist (or two). There aren’t many things that feel as good as making love to your favorite songs, so if you haven’t curated a sex music playlist, get on it!

A 2011 study published in Nature Neuroscience found that music can awaken the same pleasure-seeking parts of the brain that are stimulated when you have sex. That’s fascinating, isn’t it? Listening to music while having sex can definitely take pleasure to a whole new level. 

So, let’s talk about how to curate a perfect sex playlist for you and your partner. We even have 69 sexy song recommendations to help you get started. 

How To Create a Sex Playlist: 69 Sex Songs To Add

How To Curate Your Personal Sex Playlist

Creating a sex playlist can be a very fun activity to do with your partner. You might take as long as you want, slowly adding songs to a shared playlist, or making it into an activity for one of your date nights. Here are a few tips to help you create the best sex playlist: 

Brainstorm First 

Unless your partner gave you the task of creating a sex playlist for both of you, and they trust your judgment 100%, chances are that you both will have a different vision for a sex playlist. So, first, you might want to create a shared playlist where you both can add songs you each love. 

Don’t think too hard about it, simply make a list of songs that are sexy, that make you feel empowered, and that give you chills. Once you both are happy with the list of the songs you brainstormed, it’s time for the next step – structuring the playlist!

Give Your Playlist Some Structure

To make an impactful and meaningful sex playlist, consider structuring it and keeping it at a certain length. Between an hour and an hour and a half is the best as it’s not too long, and not too short. And when it comes to adding songs, consider where each song should go. 

You might want to start with lusty, seductive songs at the very start, to build the tension and the mood. Then, in the middle, you might want to add songs that have a bit more energy. End the playlist with some sensual, chill sex songs that would help you and your partner unwind during aftercare. 

Don’t Stop With One Playlist

It’s a good idea to have a few different playlists with sex music you enjoy for different occasions. Having multiple shorter playlists with different themes will serve you better than having one that’s filled with random songs you love. 

So, you can create one playlist that’s more sensual, and lyrical for times when you want to have a slow sex session with your partner or pamper each other with erotic messages. Another playlist might be filled with your favorite R&B jams for when you want something playful and fun. 

You can create as many sex playlists that set different moods as you desire. There will never be too many!

69 Sex Songs To Add to Your Sex Playlist

1. Partition by Beyoncé

The lyrics “He Monica Lewinski’d all on my gown” speak for themselves. Beyonce knew what she was doing.

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2. Billie Bossa Nova by Billie Eilish

Tender, lyrical, and very sensual song for building anticipation. 

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3. He Can Only Hold Her by Amy Winehouse 

Amy’s voice and the beat make almost all of her songs perfect for a sex playlist. 

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4. No Diggity by Blackstreet Boys’

An oldie, but a goodie. 

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5. Can’t Help Falling in Love by Elvis Presley

Perfect song to listen to while gently gazing into your partner’s eyes. 

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6. Nothing’s Gonna Hurt You Baby by Cigarettes After Sex

Perfect song for after-sex cuddles.

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7. Love to Love You, Baby by Donna Summer

Classic hit song that will make you hot and bothered. 

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8. Sexy Back by Justin Timberlake 

When you want to be sexy, but still funny, this one’s a way to go.

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9. What Goes Around by Justin Timberlake

Perfect long lazy makeout sessions.

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10. Pony by Ginuwine

No sex playlist is ever complete without this song!

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11. Adore by Cashmere Cat & Ariana Grande

All romantics will want this one on their playlist. 

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12. Positions by Ariana Grande

This whole album from Ariana Grande is one big sex playlist. But if you need only one song, then why not choose one that talks about sex positions?

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13. Earned It by The Weeknd

No matter how you feel about the Fifty Shades of Grey movie, you can’t deny their playlist is the bomb. 

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14. Carolina by Harry Styles

Nobody can say that Harry Styles is not sexy. 

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15. Doin’ It by LL Cool J

Smooth and sexy, just like you. 

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16. I Put a Spell on You by Nina Simone 

This classic will surely charm your partner. 

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17. Nice and Slow by Usher 

For when you want it nice and slow. 

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18. Thinkin Bout You by Frank Ocean

Another hit for after-sex cuddles.

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19. That’s the Way Love Goes by Janet Jackson

Every 90’s R&B fan will want this on their sex playlist. 

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20. Sex with Me by Rihanna

When you want your partner to know how good sex with you is, instead of telling them, let them listen to this song!

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21. Video Games by Lana Del Rey

Lana Del Rey has many hits that fit perfectly into any sex playlist but with the lyrics “Heaven is a place on earth with you” Video Games take the #1 spot on the list.

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22. Let’s Make Love by Faith Hill & Tim McGraw

When you want to be subtle about initiating some sexy time. 

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23. Señorita by Camila Cabello & Shawn Mendes

This song is full of longing and tension, which makes it the perfect pick for a romantic night with your partner. 

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24. Need You Tonight by INXS

No better song to do a little striptease for your partner. 

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25. Do I Wanna Know by Arctic Monkeys

One of the sexiest songs of all time. 

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26. I Feel You by Depeche Mode

There is space for rock and some more hardcore songs in the sex playlist and this one is a good place to start! 

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27. Bad Things by Jace Everet

All vampire lovers will remember this from the True Blood TV show. 

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28. WAP by Cardi B & Megan Thee Stallion

This one is for all certified freaks.

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29. Montero (Call Me By Your Name) by Lil’ Nas X

Nothing sexier than giving a devil a dance lap in hell! 

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30. 34+35 by Ariana Grande

Another of Grande’s songs that are all about having fun all night.

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31. Crazy In Love (Fifty Shades Of Grey) by Beyoncé

A wonderful sensual version of the classic hit song by the queen herself.

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32. Let’s Talk About Sex by Salt-N-Pepa

Not every song in your sex playlist has to be serious! 

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33. Unholy (feat. Kim Petras) by Sam Smith

This song will definitely make you want to do unholy things with your partner. 

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34. Candy Shop by 50 Cent 

This one needs no comments.

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35. Nasty Girl by Notorious Big 

Classic sex song. 

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36. I’ll Be Missing You by P. Diddy

Perfect song to wind down and chill together. 

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37. My Humps by Black-Eyed Peas

When you want to have a good laugh with your partner!

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38. You Put A Spell On Me by Austin Georgio 

This version by Austin Georgio is very romantic and sexy. 

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39. Can’t Get You out of My Head by Kylie Minogue 

What better way to tell your partner that you’re obsessed with them?

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40. Nasty by Russ

Want to learn how to talk dirty to your partner? This song will teach you that and more. 

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41. Do I Make You Nervous? by Lilyisthatyou

Younger generation artists have some pretty great songs that are hot and sexy. 

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42. Powerful by Major Lazor, Ellie Goulding & Tarrus Riley

Filled with longing, romantic and sexy – a perfect sex playlist song. 

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43. Harleys In Hawaii by Katy Perry

You don’t need to be on vacation to experience what Katy Perry sings about in this song. 

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44. Ain’t It Funny by Jennifer Lopez

It’s hard to choose one from all Jennifer Lopez songs, but this one really hits the spot. 

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45. Oh Mami by Chase Atlantic

Chase Atlantic is the ultimate sex music band for Gen Z.

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46. Lost on You by LP

If the lyrics “All I ever wanted was you” won’t melt your partner’s heart, then we don’t know what will…

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47. Steam by Exmiranda 

The Gossip Girl reboot went from 10 to 100 purely because of this song. 

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48. Confident by Justin Bieber

Confidence is sexy and this song will make you feel confident. 

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49. Love You Like A Love Song by Selena Gomez

When you need a little bit of romance, Selena Gomez is the way to go. 

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50. Supermassive Black Hole by Muse

Throwback to Twilight and the sexy baseball scene. 

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51. Watermelon Sugar by Harry Styles

Rumor has it “Watermelon Sugar” is about cunnilingus… What perfect song for when you want to go down on your partner?

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52. My Oh My by Camilla Cabello

Camilla Cabello knows how to write great sex songs. 

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53. In These Shoes? by Kirsty MacColl

Another oldie but a goodie that is sexy, and a little funny. 

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54. Ride It by Regard 

Perfect for when you’re riding it. 

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55. Do It To It by Cherish

This R&B classic is definitely doing it for us!

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56. Baby by Madison Beer

“Pin me to the floor, treat it like it’s yours,” says all there is to say!

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57. You And I by Lady Gaga

A romantic song for cuddles afterward.

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58. Push by Enrique Iglesias

No sex playlist would be complete without Enrique Iglesias. 

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59. Smooth by Santana 

This song will take you on a sexy vacation to the Caribbean. 

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60. Yo Te Lo Dije by J Balvin

Reaggeton is a sexy music genre! Try moving to the rhythm of the song and see how fun that can be. 

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61. I’m Yours by Isabel La Rosa

This song is everything you need for a long and sweet love-making session. 

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62. Babydoll by Ari Abdul 

Sensual, slow, and with a great beat.

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63. Go F*ck Yourself by Two Feet

Don’t let this song’s name fool you. 

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64. Secrets by Omido, Ordell & Rick Jansen 

Sensual and full of longing – perfect sex playlist song.

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65. Bad Girls Do It Well by Ex Habit 

We say – all girls do it well.

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66. I Wanna Be Yours by Arctic Monkeys 

Slow and sensual. 

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67. West Coast by Lana Del Rey

From lyrics to the music itself, this song was made for a sex playlist. 

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68. Love Is a B*tch by Two Feet 

Two Feet do know how to make sensual, lyrical sex music that hits all the right spots. 

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69. Call Out My Name by The Weeknd

The Weeknd knows how to do sex music well, what can we say?

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