Sexual Boundaries and Saying “No:” What You Need to Know

In a culture that applauds people for being as easy-going as possible, it can feel hard to speak up and state our...

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Compersion: The #1 Way to Succeed in Polyamory

Polyamory has as many perks as a garden’s got roses, and smells just as sweet. All that community, camaraderie, and...

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The Stigma Surrounding Bi+ Men

There’s a thing every bi+ person knows: nobody else believes in us. And out of everyone who falls under the pan/bi+...

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The Fun of Teasing and Denial

Sex is such a dang joy. When we’re deep in the moment with a partner and things go from hot to sizzling, sometimes it...

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Everything You Need to Know About Caning

We could spend all day wondering what singular moment in our lives sparked our fantasies of rods and canes. Maybe it...

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What is Erotic Hypnosis?

Want to surrender control completely? Submission takes on a whole new level when hypnosis comes into play. Blending all...

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The Heroes of Pride and the LGBTQ+ Folks Who Represent Us

Through millennia of forced silence, the LGBTQ community has persisted – and with more of us holding positions of...

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What is a Rainbow Kiss?

If I had to pinpoint the most enjoyable thing that’s happened to the world of sex since the internet came on the...

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What Does it Mean to be Panromantic

LGBT. LGBTQ. LGBTQI. LGBTQIA+. As an out and proud member of the queer community, I relish each letter our little web...

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Sex is NOT Better When It’s Rare

If you think having sex once a week (or month, or year) is enough, think again. Forget treating the Big O like a rare...

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Is a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) Right for You?

Every single relationship is unique – that’s what makes love so fantastic. Power dynamics, our little shared...

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Painful Penetration – What You Need To Know

Surrendering to the call of our innermost desires is the collective pulse of our humanity. Those moments when we lose...

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I Choose Me: The Case for Sologamy

Alright, alright. I can already hear it: not the wedding bells for the next solo wedding, but the heckling. It’s...

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I Queefed During Our First Hookup – Can I Go Die Now?

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. The time has come. You’ve...

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