There’s so much more to intimacy than meets the eye. Intimacy opens the door to not only experiencing immense amounts of physical pleasure but also emotional closeness, trust, and connection. This can help strengthen your relationship with your partner and with yourself.
A great way to help enhance intimacy is by bringing sex toys into the mix. Sex toys aren’t just for solo play; they can also be super fun when used with a partner.
Incorporating sex toys into your sex life can enhance communication, foreplay, and shared pleasure in relationships. Exploring intimacy through sex toys is one of the best ways you can reach new levels of connection and pleasure with your partner.
How Sex Toys Can Strengthen Intimacy
If sex toys are new to you or in your relationship, it can be a bit nerve-racking to start out. But there are endless reasons to incorporate them.
These are just a few of the ways sex toys can enhance your relationship intimacy:
- Encouraging open communication: If you want to bring sex toys into your relationship, it’s going to take a whole lot of discussion around your desires, boundaries, and preferences. All of this helps to foster a deeper connection.
- Building trust and vulnerability: It can be super vulnerable to ask to try something new in your sex life. Introducing something new into the bedroom requires trust, creating an opportunity for you to become even closer to your partner.
- Shared pleasure and mutual satisfaction: Many sex toys are designed to enhance pleasure for both partners, making intimacy more fulfilling. Even if a toy doesn’t directly stimulate both of you, seeing your partner experiencing deeper pleasure still increases pleasure and satisfaction for everyone involved.
Choosing the Right Sex Toys for Couples
Once you both decide, “You know what? Yeah. We would love to bring some sex toys into the bedroom”, you then have to decide what toys are right for you.
Luckily, we’re here to help make that decision easier with some of the best sex toys for couples:
Couples’ vibrators: These are wearable and remote-controlled options that allow for hands-free pleasure.
Try: The TIANI Harmony is an app-connected vibrator for couples with two motors that work in unison to enhance the sensations of both partners during sex. The smooth, insertable tail is inserted into the vagina, bringing sublime pleasure to both partners, while the external arm offers satisfying vibrations to stimulate the clitoris.
Vibrating cock rings: These are some of the most fun sex toys for couples since they enhance stimulation for both partners during penetration.
Try: TOR 2 is a flexible vibrating cock ring that boasts more powerful vibrations than any product of its kind and features a smooth silicone design that comfortably fits all sizes.
App-controlled toys: These are great sex toys for long-distance couples or those looking to add an element of surprise.
Try: IDA Wave is an app-connected dual vibrator designed with LELO’s patented WaveMotion™ technology. Complete with two powerful motors working relentlessly to offer clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Your partner can connect to the app so you can surrender to the ultimate hands-free stimulation.
Massage and foreplay toys: Sensory tools like feathers, warming oils, and wand massagers to enhance touch and anticipation. These are a nice, gentle entry into the world of toys.
Try: Our Full Body Massage Candle is made of natural oils, shea butter, and other nourishing ingredients. Not only is the oil from this candle the ultimate moisturizer, but it’s chemical- and wax-free. Use it on your partner for some hot foreplay!
Enhancing Foreplay & Connection
So, how do sex toys for intimacy help enhance foreplay and connection? The possibilities are limitless!
We all know that foreplay is the secret sauce to deeper pleasure and more intense orgasms. You can use toys to help extend foreplay. Vibrators can be used to tease and draw out pleasure before any penetration. You can also use things like blindfolds and temperature play (with that massage candle) to build excitement and tantalize the senses.
Speaking of tantalizing the senses, sex toys for partners are a great way to explore new sensations together. Using them allows you to try different stimulation types, from gentle to intense, so you can discover new shared pleasures.
Sex toys can also be a great way to create rituals of intimacy. When you incorporate them into special date nights or relaxation rituals, you help bring more intention to your sex life and to your relationship.
Overcoming Barriers & Misconceptions
There are a lot of misconceptions when it comes to sex toys for partners. These can become barriers to bringing them into the bedroom. Sometimes it just takes a little extra communication so you can deconstruct those misconceptions head-on.
Some partners worry about feeling “replaced” by toys. Tools are not a replacement for intimacy. Really, they are a way to enhance intimacy for both people. There’s no way a toy can replace your partner!
Still, you sometimes need to break the ice when bringing sex toys to a hesitant partner. It’s important to approach these conversations and situations in a positive and pressure-free way. Try explaining in a way that sparks curiosity, making it clear that you want to explore this as a way of deepening intimacy in your relationship, not creating a barrier.
You may need to adapt to your different comfort levels. That could mean first bringing in something a bit more mellow, like a massage candle, then slowly starting to incorporate things that might feel a little more out of their comfort zone, like a vibrating cock ring. Keep the conversation open throughout this process!
Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships
Another incredible benefit of sex toys for married couples or people in long-term relationships is that they can help to keep the spark alive.
When you’ve been with someone for a long time, passion can ebb and flow. Toys can help rekindle passion by breaking you out of routine with new experiences and sensations.
Toys are also a great way to explore new fantasies together. Using sex toys can act as a gateway to discussing and trying new desires. This is like opening a Pandora’s box of possibilities when it comes to your sex life.
Sex toys are also great for helping you maintain intimacy over time. They can help your sex life and experiences evolve and take a different shape, so your relationship stays exciting and full of novelty.
Deepening Your Relationship
Remember that sex toys for partners aren’t just about physical pleasure, but about emotional connection and shared experiences.
This is your relationship and your sex life, so you both get to decide what feels like a good pace when it comes to exploring sex toys. Keep the line of communication open before, during, and after trying toys so you both know where the other is at.
Feeling inspired? Here’s your nudge to try one of these sex toys for couples or explore other ways to build trust and intimacy in your relationship.
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