Ahh doggy style. It’s a classic for a reason. For people with vaginas, it can help stimulate the elusive G-spot, while people with penises can get a whole lot of prostate stimulation.
Not to mention it can be pleasurable for the person doing the penetrating whether they’re experiencing pleasure through their penis or merely getting off on watching their partner while they f*@$ them from behind!
But variety is the spice of life. While doggy style can be great for all involved, sometimes you want to switch things up. We’re here to broaden your horizons with these four extra-spicy hit-it-from-behind positions.
Inclusive Doggy Style
It’s important to point out that traditional doggy style just doesn’t work for some people. Some people with vaginas experience a stabbing sensation, too much intensity, and even motion sickness! For others, it just doesn’t feel good. These people may still want to explore having sex from behind but need some alternative positions to explore.
For people who enjoy penetrative sex, many love the sensation of getting railed from behind…and their partners probably love giving it to them. We want to be clear that these positions are for anyone and everyone, no matter their gender or sexuality.
Most of these positions can be done whether you’re having anal or vaginal penetrative sex with a penis or a toy – like a strap-on. Use your imagination!
1. Standing Salute
For those looking for a more *vigorous* experience, it’s time to get out of bed and get moving!
Having sex while standing up can be a bit difficult ergonomically speaking. Many people find the easiest way to do this is by doing so from behind.
You’ll most likely need some leverage so you don’t fall over. The best way to do this is to lean your hands against the wall or the bed while your partner enters from behind.
If there’s a height disparity between you two, you can always stand on something to bring you up higher – just be sure it’s steady enough to hold you moving around. If your partner is using a toy with their hands they can kneel and penetrate you from a lower angle while enjoying an incredible view.
This one can be extra steamy. Be sure to stay hydrated and maybe even stretch it out before and after. No one needs a pulled muscle when you’re trying to get it on.
2. The Love Seat
Looking to break in that new couch or lounge chair? We might have an idea…
The person doing the penetrating sits normally on a chair or couch. Then the person being penetrated sits on their lap and does their thing!
Your partner gets the intense sensation of you grinding on them while being close enough to use their hands to explore the rest of your body. They can also use their feet as leverage to dive deeper into their partner.
This is a great position for bringing in a toy for clitoral stimulation if that applies to you and/or your partner. We recommend the easy-to-maneuver SIRI 2 or LILY 2, a small scented vibrator for an extra level of sensory stimulation.
3. The Right Angle
Looking for a position that offers deep penetration while maximizing skin-to-skin contact? Look no further!
First, the person being penetrated lies on their belly, then they bend one of their knees to move one of their legs up so it’s more or less perpendicular to the rest of their body. I’m sure you can guess what happens next…
For an extra deep angle, you can put a pillow under your pelvis to prop your hips up a bit. The person on top can alternate between holding themselves up with their arms while staying upright, and laying down on their partner’s back while thrusting into them.
To keep things slipping and sliding, we recommend adding some extra lubrication. Just be sure it’s safe to use with condoms or toys if you’re using either of those. *Hint, hint* LELO’s water-based Personal Moisturizer and Neutral Water-Based lubricant are both great options.
Caution: You will get sweaty with all that bodily contact!
4. A Classic Spoon
There’s something extra sweet and intimate about spooning. But spooning isn’t just for cuddling, it can also be an awesome sex position.
This position is all about getting both of you as comfortable as possible so you can really lean into pleasure. Use pillows and props as needed then both of you lay on your sides and get down to it. A spooning alternative is to have the penetrating partner lay on their side while the other partner lays half on their back, half on their side to sort of lay on top of their partner and be entered that way.
This is another great position for being able to explore your partner’s body with your hands or toys. This is true whether you’re doing the penetrating or being penetrated. Breasts, nipples, clits, balls, and butts are pretty much all accessible while spooning.
If you’re behind, we recommend giving some extra oral attention to your partner’s neck. You can thank us later!
Safety First!
Of course, no sex convo would be complete without a little safety meeting. If you’re having sex with a new partner, be sure to discuss your STI status and testing history, as well as any barrier methods you’re using like condoms. You’ll also want to have a birth control chat if that applies to you.
Another important aspect of safety is communication. This is especially true when you’re trying out a new position, even if it’s with your long-term partner. Unless you’ve discussed loving the element of surprise, ask them if they’re comfortable and open to exploring a new position, or two, or five… this conversation can be its own kind of foreplay!
Your sex life is a place where you can explore and experience new levels of pleasure. So take these positions and make them your own. Enjoy the ride!
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