Why Is Recreational Sex Controversial?

We generally have consensual sex for three reasons. First is procreative, which is sex for the purposes of...

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What Is Demisexuality?

Only this much is certain: demisexuality is not the adoration of Demi Lovato. If you love her, chase your bliss, but...

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How Long Should Sex Last?

There is no such thing as a normal sexual response. Everybody reacts differently, sexually speaking. There are as many...

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Do You Have A Higher Sex Drive Than Your Partner?

We often discuss dealing with a partner with a higher sex drive than you. But what if you are that partner? What advice...

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Why Do Men Send Dick Pics?

Almost without exception, any woman who has had the misfortune to adventure onto the internet has seen a penis...

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Funny Men Offer More Orgasms

BAHAHAHAHAhhhahahaHAHhAHahaAHaHAHahha… *oh* *oh* HAHHAhahhahahahhahahahaha… *oh* *phew* Hahahah… hahaha…...

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Is It OK To Watch Porn In Public?

When I was a grad student, longer ago than I can comfortably recall, I remember sitting in a lecture, at the back,...

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5 Lies You Tell Yourself When You’re Heartbroken

Heartbreak fucking sucks. It’s the worst. It feels like a sickness, like poison, like grief. Everything loses its...

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The Standby Spouse: Is A Backup Boyfriend Normal?

We have very complex mating strategies as a species. Research shows that heterosexual women will adapt their behavior...

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Sexual Meditation How-To

In a previous article, we talked in general terms about the act and experience of sexual meditation, which is a key...

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What Do Sexual Fantasies Mean?

When we describe our sexual fantasies, we tend to share the details and dynamics, focusing on specific parts of the...

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What Causes Premature Ejaculation?

Since the approval of Viagra in 1998, you’d be forgiven for suspecting that erectile dysfunction is the most...

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Gender Isn’t Binary

Recently, the U.S. Supreme Court clarified that people can’t be fired for being gay or transgender according to the...

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Why Is Cuckolding a Popular Fantasy

Women have had a hard time of things when it comes to cheating, culturally speaking. In most of the societies mentioned...

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Tips for Movie Sex

Have you ever finished having sex and thought, “that wasn’t like the movies”?  Movie sex is, of course,...

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5 MORE Things the Smithsonian Taught Me About Sex

The Smithsonian is a fountainhead of fascination and wonder. But dig deep enough, and you’ll find that this venerable...

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