Your Top 5 Questions about the Benefits of Prostate Massage Answered

Benefits of prostate massage

We live in a world where one must often sacrifice health for pleasure and vice-versa; for instance, if we want one kind of six-pack, we must forgo the other – that sort of thing.

In the rare instances where ultimate health and ultimate pleasure can be combined, you know we’re going to be all for it – even when they come together in seemingly unlikely ways.

In this case, the rare instance would be prostate stimulation through massage – which, while being the key to some mind-blowing experiences, is also part of maintaining a man’s peak sensual health. When it comes to peak sensual health, men may be hesitant as far as anal pleasure is concerned, but the benefits speak for themselves.

Here, we answer the top five questions about prostate massaging that any man might have on his mind.

Male genital system

What is a Prostate?

The prostate is a walnut-sized, semen-storing gland located at the root of the penis, just below the bladder. When massaged, stagnant semen is released and voila…it is cleansed. When ignored, as is often the case, semen becomes stagnant, creating a buildup of bacteria which can cause swelling.

So What are the Benefits of Prostate Massage?

Regular prostate massage reduces the risk of prostatitis, prostate cancer, genital pain, symptoms of erectile dysfunction and frequent nighttime urination. In addition, it improves overall erectile function and increases seminal fluid and circulation. While the health benefits are long-lasting, you might be surprised at all the other positives in store.

Does it Hurt?

When done properly, it’s the exact opposite. As shown in the stats of our prostate massage infographic, many men experience intense, long-lasting, even multiple orgasms and intense ejaculation when their prostate is massaged. While many men focus solely on external pleasure points, male biology’s best kept sexual secret often gets left in the dark (or more colloquially referred to as a place ‘where the sun don’t shine’).

Wait…it Feels Good!?

Assuming you like mind-blowing sex: yes. It’s time for men to stop envying women for their ability to experience intense, long-lasting orgasms. The prostate (sometimes called the P-Spot) is the male version of the female G-spot, and when stimulated enables even more (up to 33% more)  intense orgasms, otherwise unattainable by the more standard penile friction.

Okay, You’ve got My Attention. So How Do I Do It?

You can use a finger, but first you need to find the prostate and manually stimulate it by repetitively moving your finger back and forth. This can be a little tricky, so to take the job off of your hands (literally), we offer a variety of gentleman’s prostate massagers perfectly suited to the male body.

There’s the original BILLY™, which has a slimmer form perfect for beginners and the fuller-formed LOKI™ for those who want a more intense experience.

LOKI™ Wave takes that pleasantly fulfilling form and adds the revolutionary WaveMotion™ to replicate the expert sensation of fingers beckoning you toward intense orgasm.

HUGO™ and BRUNO™ are the perfect plugs for hands-free stimulation, and HUGO™ comes with a remote control that puts your pleasure in your partner’s hands.

Written by: Katy Thorn

Katy Thorn is a post-grad writer with a passion for writing about sex, sexuality, and all things rated R. She received her degree in Women’s Studies with a focus in Intersectionality at the University of California, Berkeley (Go Bears!). She has a cat named Yoko, drinks too much black coffee, and hates writing bios.


  1. I’ve been stimulating my husbands prostate for a couple years now The amount he cums/ejaculates has almost doubled even without stimulating it he used to have 4-5 “ropes” shoot out now about 7-8 and and a lot more total volume I recommend try this it has increased his stamina and his orgasms seem more intense

  2. I just wanted to say that a blogger had basically ripped off this article, albeit with a for grammar changes.

  3. Very perceptive!

    We’ve actually ripped off our own article; PicoBong is a sister site of ours, and the prostate massage advice was so good, we just had to use it twice!

  4. My wife has been stimulating my prostate for more than 20 years. While she does this I masturbate myself until a strong, deep and fantastic orgasm. if anyone never did it, lost moments of extreme happiness and pleasure. Obviously the site should be pre-washed to avoid inappropriate odors.

  5. Great article, Jessica! I’ve been using a LELO Billy for a while and I don’t know how I lived without it.

  6. My girlfriend (at the time) one day was giving me oral pleasure… when I struggled to climax she randomly took out a glove and applied lube… at first I was like wtf?! And let me just say… if u have never tried an orgasm that is “prostate massage induced” then I promise you, you are missing out.

  7. After two bouts with prostate cancer deciding on the direct radiation treatment choice, my doctor recommended prostate massage as a way to help with prostate rehabilitation and health.
    My first issue was dicussing this with my wife. How does one open the conversation and even though we have open minds with our fantasy/ sex life…. it was still hard. I showed my wife a more medical documentary tile film clip and showed a few recommended stimulator types for beginners. Embarrassment was a hinderance because of the machismo part of me so I started playing with my rectum alone. I found that inserting one of her vibrators in my ass while masterbating felt incredible… next I started to do this in our secluded yard poolside when home alone. One day she came home and found me in the yard enjoying myself. She stood there and watched me from the window as I masterbated to a great climax. .. she inturn masterbated while she watched. That evening she started an oral sex session in wbich she inserted her slippery finger into my rectum… and gave me an awesome orgasm. Ever since she will some how know exactly when I really want that treatment and has even purchased a few toys for me… understanding your partners needs are paramount.

  8. Does prostate masssage help when trying for baby?

  9. When you put a finger in your rectum are you feeling for anything in particular please describe what one encounters as I would like to try it with my wife

  10. oh god have just been doing this ALL afternoon on my own and had to tell someone. Have tried before and it was OK but things just clicked today! Not sure if I will ever discuss this with my wife but that was absolutely amazing… orgasm, rest, orgasm, rest, orgasm, rest, orgasm… definately recommend using a vibrator as I couldn’t keep that up using a finger! And it is good for you ?!?!?!?!?

  11. Once in a great while my wife will massage mine but not often enough.

  12. this may sound stupid but how do i find my prostate and what happens if i have no lubricant or toys what can i do then

  13. I discovered this when I was a kid and kept it a super secret since I was afraid of being labeled gay or weird which I turned out to be not at all. Never brought it up with any of my girlfriends yet but now I think I’m ready to “come out of the closet”. It is incredible, I use whatever I could find that’s the size of my normal dump and slippery enough with good lubrication. One advice, the right choice of food makes your excrement harder so it doesn’t stick to your rectum so it stays very clean: lots of fiber, oatmeal etc. Test your lubricant because some of them may feel weird once up there, it should feel awesome.

  14. 110cm is a bit long though…

  15. I recently wrote about this topic too. It is amazing how good it can be to try prostate massaging! Normal masturbation can get very boring and feel the same. Trying this can bring a whole new dimension to ‘me time’. If you can get over being all macho and thinking it’s wrong, then it can be a super pleasurable experience!

  16. I note that you offer no documentary support for your claim that prostate massage offers medical benefits. Wikipedia asserts that western medicine recognizes no medical benefits to prostate massage but instead notes a number of known risks including the risk of disturbing or metastasizing prostate cancers. Please cite your sources.

  17. Mark, I think the main medical benefit is that I just drenched my wife in cum and am about to get some serious sack time. Sleep is very important, medically speaking, ergo taking a vibe up my ass is good for me.

  18. What about if you have had a vasectomy, do you still get the benefits,

  19. its sad canada and the united states are both against anything to do with the prostate ppl should make a medical documentery and go viral with it on mass media. that way ppl stop getting labeled gay everytime they talk about it and most doctors refuse to talk about it its like there embarrased or somthing when the topic comes up. i swear alot of these doctors need to grow up.

  20. i opt for a prostate massage as part of a regular sensual massage several times a month. i’m in the San Diego CA area and have found 2 practitioners who provide an elite service. I look forward to these special massages and have found that my ejaculations are stronger and more copious. Of course, the added stimulation while ejaculating is a big plus.

  21. Dillon, how does one find such a practitioner while avoiding any potential problems? If I went to a place like massage envy I wouldn’t even know what to say without sounding like a pervert or gay or something. Is there some kind of a title for them?

  22. I’m 60 yrs old and was researching this for health benefits and tried it out wish I would have done this yrs ago wow. Great experience I use a g spot viberator to massage and milk my prostate. I have ed have trouble keeping an erection so this way I can get off. Wife is not interested in sex anymore but I am. When she is at work I play alone about 3 times a wk. I have noticed after 2 days my prostate is acheing to be massaged and milked again. You have to get over being homophobia to do this but its worth it wow.

    • Hey, I think you sir, need to talk to every man out there! Prostate massaging has many health benefits as well as being extremely pleasurable and I’m so glad you have discovered it. I would suggest though that you use a vibrator that is designed specifically for anal play with a flared base. We have plenty prostate massagers that could suit you. As for you wife, have you tried speaking to her? She may be interested in helping you explore this part of your sexuality! All the best, Katy

  23. I ordered a prostate massager on line a aernoes clear called ice. Works good. Have to keep this to myself if my wife found out about it she would think I was weird and might be turning gay.keep my toys hid in the closet lol.

    • Hey Perry, have you tried talking to your wife about it? If you feel she may not be very open about it, you could show her this article or video.. Communication is key to opening this conversation up!

  24. I will keep doing it solo Under the don,t ask and don,t tell policy.

  25. I would prefer someone else doing it on me rather than me doing it for ma self !

  26. I discovered prostate stimulation via a porn site so I experimented solo with a dildo. WOW BIG WOW. Had been married about 30 years and sex was OK but not spectacular. I have always been very attentive to my wife being sure to utilize intense foreplay from her feet, her ass clit etc all the way to her ears. Fucked her till she asked me to cum IE: making sure she was pleasured.
    In turn she did her best, but after many years of marriage, exploring our/my sexuality was very important, if one isn`t happy, one will find it. Thus the internet and joint research and discovered that anal sex and prostate stimulation, done properly, is soo dam hot. We continue to experiment and it gets better and better. Try tasting your own cum, fuck that makes me hard and ready to eat and fuck her till she tells me that she is getting sore.
    So men, man up, douche that ass and just engage in conversation and anal P-spot or male G-spot sex. The men in the above replies are right……you won`t be able to get enough. Ain`t no orgasm like an anal orgasm’

  27. Don’t wait to ask for it. Married for more than 40 years, finally got over the embarrassment and asked my wife to stimulate my prostate with finger and/or toy. She has been supportive and will when I ask, or put a toy in her hand. Not sure if she enjoys it, but I sure do! Wish I hadn’t waited. Props to websites like LELO for disseminating information, making prostate massage and exploration of anal pleasure more mainstream.

    • Jerry, I’m sure your wife enjoys giving you pleasure as much as you enjoy receiving it. Seeing a partner enjoy themselves is a huge turn on. Glad you enjoy the blog 🙂

  28. I have been Married for 35 years and recently came across the physical benefits of Prostate Massage and Milking. When I showed my wife the benefits IE: internet, she was very understanding and moved forward. We now use a dildo and she realizes not only the benefits but also the pleasure she provides me. We look forward to anal/prostate stimulation at least once a month……additionally…….at my last yearly physical, my prostate numbers were below what they had been in the past. So I explained to my Doctor that my wife had began massaging my prostate to orgasm. He explained the benefits, which I already knew, and wished that more wives would be so considerate. Remember that what goes on in your bedroom is nobodies business.
    Just a note….when my wife notices me getting a little cranky, she is the one who suggests an anal orgasm to calm me down. IE: I get cranky and I get a good release

    • Eddie, that is awesome! We encourage people to talk to their partners and explore. The benefits of prostate massage can be incredibly rewarding; physically and mentally as you mentioned.

  29. I’m excited to try this on my boyfriend-I’m a widow and we’ve been dating for about 6 months. He’s been enjoying our sex life but has been unable to orgasm. I’ve talked to him about trying this and he’s open to it. I just bought some lube today, I want to make him feel as pleased as he makes me. Sure hope he is able to orgasm.

  30. I love to try or explore different things in sex my partner is reluctant what should I do I am very horny guy an romantic lover

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    Some great information about prostate massage! I think all men should try it. It can spice up sex and add extra stimulant to it. Women, do not be ashamed to offer it to your partner.

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