While we all love the return of warmer weather to our own city, the real excitement of the summer season is the endless possibilities for travel. New sights, new sounds, exotic foods and cultures…and of course, the opportunity for a sexy summer fling.
Whether you’re looking for a secluded beach, sexy pool, or a private island…we’ve got you covered. You’ve heard of Hedonism II, Key West, and the Riviera Maya, well here are some under-the-radar destinations. We’ve put together a list of amazing locations around the world for exploring new horizons, geographically and sensually. Happily, attached? Well, you probably know as well as we do that nothing adds a spark of excitement to your relationship like a romantic getaway.
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1. Cap D’Agde, France
Paris may be the City of Love, but the Nude City is where love takes a walk on the wild side. Roughly located between Toulouse and Marseille, Cap D’Agde is a seaside resort on the Mediterranean that has long been welcoming naturalists, and the swinging set more recently. Say so long to tan lines by laying out on a nude beach or even staying at one of their nudist resorts.
You can take in French culture, delicious seafood, and beachside activity, without ever putting clothes on. With only 5% of Americans admitting to having sunbathed nude, why not step outside your comfort zone in a town where you can go to from shopping to sending postcards completely in the buff?
2. Kaikoura, New Zealand
Looking to beat the heat (or perhaps create your own)? Heading down to New Zealand during the summer months means that you’ll be there during their winter, with daytime temperatures ranging from about 12 °C (53°F) to 15.3°C (59.5°F) from August to October. On the south island of New Zealand, about 2 hours from Christchurch, you’ll find the town of Kaikoura.
It might sound chilly, but Kaikoura can be a great spot for a magical and sexy vacation. Outside of stunning hiking and swimming spots, this town also offers brilliant whale and dolphin watching. All that fresh air and activity is just what you need to get your blood pumping after a stagnant summer at home, and by night you can stay snug in your luxury tree house hotel room, hit up a hot tub, or even have a little spa treatment. Just don’t forget to pack a wand-style massager for your sore muscles.
3. Tokyo, Japan
When people hear about some of the more unique aspects of nightlife and sex culture in Japan, many write it off as quirky, while others think ‘I want to go check that out.’ While some of it might actually be lost on you when you visit, there is plenty to enjoy in this fast-paced, night-life-heavy city. Case in point, the maid cafes where waitresses dressed as French maids will address you with the most formal Japanese grammar, as they would royalty. Talk about kinky!
From sex-toy bars to themed-love hotels, Tokyo quite literally has it all, if you’re looking for it. What’s more, if all that excitement wears you out, there are plenty of clothing-optional onsen (natural hot spring spas) in the surrounding area where you can shed your tension as well as all your clothing. The areas aren’t always co-ed, however, but if you want to share erotic massages with someone, make sure to bring along a Snow Pear and Cedarwood Massage Candle.
4. Carloforte, Italy
Many may travel to Trevi Fountain to try their luck at finding love, but if you already have a special someone you want to sweep off their feet, look to the tiny community of Caloforte. Located on the island of San Pietro just off the coast of Sardinia, it is only 50 km2 (19.7 sq miles) and has 6,000 inhabitants, making it both tiny and private. The perfect combination for a sexy vacation for anyone whether you’re dating or have joined the ranks of older married couples.
Aside from boasting unparalleled beauty views from its cliffs, it also has Italy’s best seafood. There is a summer festival celebrating ‘Girotonno,’ a decadent dish you won’t find in many other places, and sea urchins. Oysters, it seems, are not the only seafood that excites your libido, so enjoy an aperitivo with white wine and sea urchin before exploring a romance language and maybe a few sex toys.
5. London, England
Don’t think London is a sexy European destination? Besides having dreamy accents, London also has quite the night scene for the urban-minded. Take a walk around the sexually progressive Soho district, with its many sex shops, colorful nightlife, and its not-so-underground kink scene.
Looking for somewhere that offers curated sexy theme nights to boost your sex life? You can rent a first-class luxury apartment complete with all your BDSM and kink needs catered to. They’ll supply the St. Andrew’s Cross, all you need to bring is an open mind, a willing partner, and perhaps your own very favorite kinky accessories.
6. The Seychelles, East Africa
A tiny archipelago off the southeast coast of Africa, Seychelles has a big reputation for romance. Containing more than 115 islands and only 90, 024 people, Seychelles is an idyllic getaway where you can quite literally get away from everything and everyone if you want to be alone with your lover.
If luxury lifestyle vacations and an all-inclusive resort are your things…Seychelles is the place to go. You can find adults-only resorts, unlimited spa treatments, nightly entertainment, and anything else your heart desires. Pick a deserted island to tick ‘sex on the beach‘ off your list. Although it’s worth noting that all the beaches are public and nudity is technically not allowed. After your romp in the sand, you can head back to the city of Mahe to check out the lively local music, as well as the renowned club ‘Lovenut.’
7. Hollywood, California
Along with other iconic cities like NYC and San Francisco, Hollywood is quite literally a melting pot of every flavor you can imagine. There’s something for everyone, from walking in the presence of greatness with the celebrity stars on Hollywood Boulevard to stargazing at the Griffith Observatory Planetarium. While public sex certainly isn’t legal, this is a great place to be if you’re looking for a mysterious masquerade or sex party.
Don’t forget the nightlife! West Hollywood (also known as WeHo), is iconic for being the gay wing of Los Angeles. And if you want to be taken back to the flapper era, check out The Edison, a renovated power plant with absinthe and live burlesque. This city is also not limited to summer, since it receives 246 sunny days per year.
8. Antelope Canyon, Arizona
A hop, skip, and a jump away from Hollywood can take you to a completely different and mesmerizing world in Antelope Canyon. It’s known for its captivating and colorful canyon walls which allow magical light to pass through during certain times of the day and is arguably one of Mother Nature’s best gifts.
Dare we say that this might be what the inside of a vagina looks like? Imagine having a little public fun during sunset in a place like this.
9. Reykjavík, Iceland
If you and your lover are interested in more of a casual vacation filled with bar crawls, live jazz, unique art exhibitions, and even drag shows, Reykjavík, Iceland, might be the place for you. Did we mention nudity is a normal thing for Icelanders?
Hard to believe with a country containing “ice” in its name, but Icelanders are encouraged to respectfully shower naked in front of others before entering waters for hygienic reasons. It’s nothing sexual, however, there are a ton of private hot springs where you could go to have some steamy alone time. While there isn’t an official nude beach, it’s acceptable to go nude, or at least topless at most beaches. And if you prefer to stay indoors, the F1S male masturbator has a temperature control to help warm up those chilly evenings.
10. Bali, Indonesia
Bali is known for its stunning beaches, ancient temples, monkey sanctuaries, and best of all—affordability. For a fraction of the price of a European vacation, you can stay at a luxury resort with a swim-up bar overlooking a picturesque beach.
If you prefer more privacy, there is an abundance of romantic villas and rooms that come with personal chefs, bubbly and rose petals galore. But don’t worry, the staff members can be dismissed at any time so you can get down to business. Perhaps you can use it as an opportunity for a naughty maid roleplay? Bali is also an incredibly safe place for single women to go and find a hot summer fling!
No matter when you’re taking your sexy vacation, these locations offer something a little bit different for every couple. Whether you’re taking your first holiday together or your twentieth.
Tips for Summer Sex
As hot and steamy as the idea of summer sex can be, it can also be just that – a hot, steamy, sweaty mess. No worries, we’ve got some tips to help keep you cool when things are heating up!
1. Set the Scene
Arousing fragrances, scented candles, rose petals, mood lighting, all these things are great for getting each other going, but, as dull as it sounds, if you screw up the ambient air temperature you can say au revoir to your sexy soirée.
We’re not saying crank the AC up to arctic levels – unless of course Eskimo kisses are your thing– but a well-prepared and comfortable environment will chill you both out for some welcome relief. Figure out your timer settings or connect it to your phone so you can make sure the temperature is perfect when you get home.
2. Fire and Ice
The contrast between hot and cold is one of the body’s deepest sensations, so a mouth full of ice cream, frozen yogurt or chilled wine or champagne provides the ideal cold shock to all your partner’s hottest places – just make sure your sheets are such that a little bit of mess won’t matter!
3. Shower Off that Sweat
After having so much fun playing with your food in the bedroom, there’s no better way to get cleaned up than by enjoying an intimate shower together.
Again set the temperature just right – if you’re experiencing a heatwave, lukewarm is a better idea than freezing cold because your skin will warm up in the chill. While you’re getting wet and wild, why not consider adding a waterproof massager into the equation? You’ll both be well on your way to the dirtiest kind of clean in no time.
4. The Lowdown
Getting down may be a well-known euphemism for sex in general. When it comes to hot weather sex it’s also a great, if somewhat unintentional, that warm air rises. A piece of advice: the lower you go, the cooler you’ll be.
If you’re lucky enough to have a basement, go there in spring, chuck out all the useless junk you should have got rid of a long time ago, and set up a sexy summer hideaway. It’s just your little secret, and you don’t even need to leave the house.
5. Get Over It
If all else fails…you know what, just embrace the sweat! Use it, slip and slide in, around and all over each other like a pair of slippery things in a slidey place. It’s not gross, it’s not weird, it’s awesome, and what’s more important, you’re both in it together!
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