Volonté A Pleasure Project by LELO
So that fateful day has arrived. Your boyfriend, through either verbal or physical snooping, has discovered the existence of your vibrator (dun dun dun), leaving you with one …
Read More »Your Boyfriend Found Your Vibrator – Now What?
Healthy Relationship
Things I’d Tell a Younger Me About Sex & Romance
I’m 35 years old and I work in the creative industry. What I mean to say is that on any given day, I am usually the oldest person …
Read More »Long-Distance Love, Lust and Making it Last
These days, opportunity and circumstance are taking as to farther flung-out places for education, employment or what have you. Whatever the reason, there might come a time that …
Read More »5 Golden Rules for Having Sex with Your Ex
The main reason we at LELO all pile to our favorite Thai restaurant for lunch is the familiarity and security of knowing more or less what to expect. …
Read More »What the Hell is ‘Cuffing Season’?
We’re just sliding into that late autumn/early winter hinterland – you know the time: the air is crisp, the sleeves are long and the lattes are pumpkin spiced. …
Read More »Do Jealousy & Comparison Really Get Us Anywhere? – A Killing Kittens Guest Post
We at LELO are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens, the members-only club that hosts female-oriented sex parties around the world, to the Volonté blog as …
Read More »Yes, No & Maybe So: The Sexy To-Do List You Should Fill Out Together
While getting to know the idiosyncratic facets of a new partner’s personality is half the fun of a new relationship, there is something to be said for coming …
Read More »How to Make Sure Stress Doesn’t Doom Your Bedroom
Sex, with its rush of endorphins and other happy brain chemicals – not to mention the exercise you get – is a great way to relieve stress. Unfortunately, …
Read More »Dear LELO: Is It Normal To Fantasize About Other People?
Dear LELO, Lately, I’ve been finding harder and harder to ‘focus’ during sex. I’m still attracted to my boyfriend, but when we’re in the middle of things, I …
Read More »Here’s How to Apply the 80-20 Principle to Your Relationship
Holding out for the perfect relationship? You’ll be waiting a long time, says Emma Sayle, a keen advocate of the 80/20 relationship rule When you wake from the …
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