Consider this guys: the way you masturbate is the same way you’ve been doing it for your entire sexually active life. For instance, this writer is in his mid-30s, which means that it’s been the same rub-and-tug for over 20 years now.
Now, I am sure that you’re not sick of masturbating or anything–but what if you could switch it up a bit? Your chosen hand, be it left or right, does the job, and does the job very well, but there are some techniques and ideas that you can throw into the mix every now and then that, if not mind-blowing, are certainly some welcome variety.
You see, a vibrator isn’t just for teasing the clitoris, stimulating the G-spot or massaging the prostate. Whether they’re deep and rumbly or light and buzzy, the sensations from a vibrating sex toy can be applied to the penis (and around the groin area) to amplify your solo enjoyment.
A buzz at the base. A vibrator handjob can be a simple affair: if your significant other owns a vibrator, you can (with their permission) simply apply it to the base of your erect penis while masturbating for a new level of sensations to an already-fun activity. If it’s a traditional vibrator, you can either hold the tip of it against the base of your penis for a surface-level buzz, or you can set the side of the vibe against your penis base for a more rumbly sensation all throughout your shaft.
A tingle at the tip. While stroking your shaft, you can train the vibrations on the head of your penis. Try focusing the sensations on your frenulum–where your foreskin meets the underside of your penis in the cleft on the bottom of the head. There are millions of nerve endings in the tip of your penis, so this will be an intense addition to your handjob.
Sensations in your scrotum. Find a vibrator with a broad surface area and place it behind your testicles while you stroke away. This thundering in your testicles won’t scramble your eggs–in fact, it will place the vibrations even closer to your prostate, which is where you could be experiencing even more pleasure than you ever thought possible.
Easiest of all. Rather than having to hold a vibrator against your penis while masturbating, the even easier option is wearing the vibrator instead. Flexible silicone cock rings can be fastened around the base of the penis, where they will buzz away while you focus on stroking. Even better is that while wearing one, you will have a firmer and slightly enlarged erection thanks to the gentle blood flow constriction it provides–perhaps worth sharing with a partner!
