5 Kissing Tips for Even Better Sex
In an ideal world, everyone would remember their first kiss but in reality, a lot of us probably don’t. Despite this, most of us agree that kissing ever since has been pretty awesome, but due to the intense pleasure experienced during sex, kissing can often play a somewhat under-appreciated role.
LELO thinks is a bit of a shame, so it’s time to find out just how much this simple, yet unique sensation can do for you and your love life.
The French kiss
Ooh la la, France where would we be without you!? Until very recently there was actually no French word for ‘French kiss’ but in spite of this it is probably the sexiest and most intimate of all the kissing styles. A passionate, tongue-tingling ‘galoche’ can really heat things up before and during sex and is also a great way to continue the intimacy after.
The tongue is a hive of nerve endings so when two – and if you’re really lucky, three – come together, sparks will fly. We reckon learning how to French kiss properly is one of life’s most important lessons, so if – for some incredible reason – you only decide to kiss one way, make sure this is it!
The love bite
Not so much a bite as it is a nibble, softly pressing your teeth into your partner’s skin during sex does not make you a vampire and can deliver an energizing jolt which, due to the delightfully fine line between the body’s pleasure and pain receptors, is a huge turn on for some. It’s also just that little bit naughty and may just hold the key to spicing up your relationship.
The not-so-humble peck
Perhaps the least appreciated kissing style, the peck is actually a dynamite way of working each other into a frenzy during a passionate sex session.Especially effective around the face and neck area, softly caressing your partner with pecks before and during sex is hugely erotic and acts as a great teasing method to assert your control.
Mix it up
Kissing is extremely versatile and different kinds of kiss at different stages of your love-making can get the juices going like absolutely nothing else.
Rather than always sticking to your tried and tested methods, experiment with different kissing techniques, speeds and rhythms which will drive your partner wild with surprise and anticipation and is one of many great ways to increase intimacy.
X marks the spot
Just as important as the way we kiss, where on the body we do it is also key to a fulfilling love life. One of the many great things about humans is that we are all different and we all have different turn-ons; besides all the obvious sensitive places, the neck, ears, back, hands and feet are particularly receptive but, pretty much wherever you see skin, there are nerves so try using your mouth to search for your partner’s unique sweet spots.
Donna is a Volonté contributor and freelancer who lives in San Francisco with her understanding husband and not-so-understanding teenage sons. Her work has been published in The Journal of Sexology and she is currently writing a book on love languages.