Okay gentlemen, this one is for you, and you all had better listen up. Today, we’re teaching about touching, in hopes that you’ll be able to drive her wild.
Why? Because the more time, effort and expertise you put in to foreplay, the more likely she is to climax during the main event, which will not only be awesome for her, but will likely ensure that you’ll be back in this sexual situation sometime again in the very near future.
Fine ladies – you can listen too. But no giggling; this stuff is serious business.
Below, we’re going to touch on some important points (pun TOTALLY intended), so take notes or simply copy and paste it, print it out, and tape it to your wall – here goes.
Her Hot Spots
A woman’s most sensitive erogenous zone, the clitoris is home to more than 8,000 nerve endings and many women climax primarily from clitoral stimulation. For those still exploring, you’ll find the clitoris at the top of her vulva, where her inner labia joins together at their upper ends – you’ll find it there wearing a hood, the sneaky little devil.
So what do you do with it? Your best bet for pleasuring her clitoris is through oral sex, in which case some gentle tongue caresses on and around this hot spot will have her on her way to Orgasm City in no time. Good move tip; try soft licks with your tongue directly on her clitoris while rubbing circles around it with the tip of your thumb, but as always when it comes to this most sensitive of spots, defer to what she wants and listen to her body language to get an idea if what you’re doing is right.
The who spot? The U-spot is the area of erectile tissue located above and on either side of her urethra, making it shaped like an upside-down U, but the Horseshoe-Spot just doesn’t have the same ring to it as U-Spot does, as it turns out.
So what do you do with it? With a well-lubricated finger, rub the area vertically or horizontally. When she’s ready for lovemaking, rub the tip of your penis around this spot before finally moving on to penetration to drive her extra wild.
Perhaps the most famous of her spots, the G-spot (which sounds better than Grafenberg spot) is that super-elusive Holy Grail of female pleasure. While some debate whether or not it even exists, we’re very content to busy ourselves with the search, which is where the fun is.
You’ll find the G-spot located 5 to 7 centimeters (2 to 3 inches) inside the vagina on the anterior – frontal – wall from the vaginal opening. You’ll notice that this area feels slightly different from the rest of the vagina; a little bumpier. You’ll certainly know it when you find it.
So what do you do with it? There are a number of great sexual positions for G-spot pleasure, but for the most effective G-spot massage your best bet is with your own hands. Place your index and middle finger in her vagina with the tips on that special spot, and with those fingers together or spread apart to make a peace sign, start curling your fingers in a ‘come hither’ motion – but for the love of God, cut your nails first! Hands getting tired? Sometimes all you need is help from the perfectly designed G-spot massager.
Otherwise known as the ‘female degenerated prostate’ or the Anterior Fomix Erogenous Zone (which means the name A-spot is A-okay with us), the A-spot is an area of sensitive tissue that plays a big part in female sexual lubrication and, when stimulated just right, is what will cause a woman to ‘squirt’.
Located at the innermost part of the vagina, the A-spot resides between her cervix and her bladder. Your best bet of stimulating this spot with consistent stimulation is likely with a sex toy designed for G-spot massage, however if any guys want to reach the A-spot during sex, you’ll have to try for some extra deep penetration; have her lie on her back with her knees pulled up to her breasts as you place your hands under her knees to spread her legs apart as you enter and begin thrusting for the deepest reach.
So did you get all that? We certainly hope so, because with these four spots drilled in to your brain, you’re already on your way to being a true pleasure pro!