LELO Sex Position of the Week: The Hard Lean

Sex Position The Hard Lean

Position Difficulty: 2.5/5

Pros

Are you ready to lean back and relax? This is one of the best positions for the receiving partner to lie back as their partner showers them with stimulation all over their body (may we suggest adding a small handheld massager to the mix?)

This position is particularly good for partners who have a smaller penis, as the angle and legs-over-the-shoulder will allow for deeper penetration. The one tricky aspect is getting the rhythm right, which is most easily done if the receiving partner uses their forearm (flat on the ground or clasping their partner’s legs) as support while the thrusting partner ‘bounces’ up in their kneeling position.

Cons

Given that this position is a using a lot of one partner’s movement, it may not be ideal for a thrusting partner who is prone to sore knees from holding a position for too long! As well, while switching up roles can be fun from time to time, if the receiving partner is not used to being so passive during sex, they may find themselves bored!

As well, while this position certainly offers a visual treat to the penetrating partner, if you are self conscious about your body it may leave you feeling very exposed.  Of course, that can also be managed with some creative dress up outfits that allow for keeping some clothes on!