Tag Archives: Advice

Today we’re going to talk about the sensitive topic of sensitivity, or rather, maintaining sensitivity. For women, we are going to center the topic around using vibrators and ...

Dear LELO, This is sort of embarrassing, but I don’t really know what else to do. I saved up for ages to buy my first LELO  (a MONA ...

Dear LELO, Lately, I’ve been finding harder and harder to ‘focus’ during sex. I’m still attracted to my boyfriend, but when we’re in the middle of things, I ...

Dear LELO I’ve never had reason to doubt my oral sex skills before, but my current partner is….well, significantly bigger than partners I’ve had before in terms of ...

Dear LELO, My friends and I had a discussion recently about whether it is safe to have sex in water (pool, jacuzzi etc.) or not and honestly, not ...

There are a lot of presuppositions and myths about anal sex: Men want it more. It’s not pleasurable for her. Everyone’s doing it apart from you. There’s no ...

Condoms are an amazingly effective (and sometimes, downright sexy) addition to pleasure that make for safer sex, but that’s not all they’re good for; just check out the ...

Cowgirl is one of those positions that tends to be very divisive; some swear by it as the perfect position to control penetration as well as their own ...

There are some promises that are never meant to be kept. “I’ll meet you at the bar later after I’ve had a nap” is one. “I’m going to ...

Despite centuries of demonization through shame and accusations of mental infirmity (as well as some fairly inventive purported outcomes, from hairy palms to blindness), we now accept that ...