Advice

Did You Know? Pillow Talk Promotes Sexual and Relationship Satisfaction

For some people, sex and intimacy is a way to get rid of any dating jitters or awkwardness. And while it may seem kind...

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What Sex Tips have You been Practicing to Stay Sane?

There’s no doubt this past year has brought about unexpected change for everyone, even in the bedroom. Whether...

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What Do You Want from Volonte? Help Us, Help You

So many amazing, challenging and sometimes funny questions roll through our inbox each week, and whenever we pick up on...

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How To Communicate Your Desires (& Receive Them) on All or Nothing Day

Historically, All or Nothing Day (July 26) is a day dedicated to facing our fears, whether that be jumping out of a...

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How to Soothe a Jealous Partner (And Is It Your Job?)

Jealousy is the common cold of relationships. Universally dreaded, it’s able to strike anyone at any time—usually...

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What Coming Out Should Look Like

There are a lot of questions that arise before thinking about coming out (a metaphor used by the LGBTQ+ community...

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LGBTQ&A: Exploring Your Bicuriosity

We get a lot of feedback from our wonderful readers, and as June is Pride month, we are going to be tackling some of...

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Everybody Hurts Sometimes: 6 Tips for Dealing with Heartbreak

Getting your heart broken is horrible, and unfortunately medicine has still not produced an overnight cure. Methods for...

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Spring Forward By Taking a Step Back and Appreciating Your Partner

We hear a lot about ‘spicing it up’ and helping couples to keep the spark alive, particularly during the Hallmark...

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Recipes for Better Sex: An Aphrodisiac Meal Plan

For thousands of years, people have searched for edible items to guarantee peak sexual performance and pleasure....

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Coming Out Day – To Whom And How?

Today, October 11th, marks the 31st Anniversary of National Coming Out Day. How amazing is it to say that in our...

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Rubbed the Wrong Way: Can You Masturbate ‘Too Hard’?

Today we’re going to talk about the sensitive topic of sensitivity, or rather, maintaining sensitivity. For women, we...

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Dear LELO: I Don’t Think I’m Masturbating the ‘Right’ Way

Dear LELO, This is sort of embarrassing, but I don’t really know what else to do. I saved up for ages to buy my first...

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Is It Normal To Fantasize About Other People During Sex?

Dear LELO, Lately, I’ve been finding harder and harder to ‘focus’ during sex. I’m still...

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Dear LELO: How Do I Give a Blow Job to Someone Who is VERY Well-Endowed?

Dear LELO I’ve never had reason to doubt my oral sex skills before, but my current partner is….well, significantly...

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Dear LELO: Is Sex In Water Safe?

Dear LELO, My friends and I had a discussion recently about whether it is safe to have sex in water (pool, jacuzzi...

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