Advice

What does coming out look like to you as a straight person who’ll never have to know the anticipation; the fear; the anxiety? What does it look like …

Today we’re going to talk about the sensitive topic of sensitivity, or rather, maintaining sensitivity. For women, we are going to center the topic around using vibrators and …

Dear LELO, This is sort of embarrassing, but I don’t really know what else to do. I saved up for ages to buy my first LELO  (a MONA …

Dear LELO, Lately, I’ve been finding harder and harder to ‘focus’ during sex. I’m still attracted to my boyfriend, but when we’re in the middle of things, I …

Dear LELO I’ve never had reason to doubt my oral sex skills before, but my current partner is….well, significantly bigger than partners I’ve had before in terms of …

Dear LELO, My friends and I had a discussion recently about whether it is safe to have sex in water (pool, jacuzzi etc.) or not and honestly, not …

There are a lot of presuppositions and myths about anal sex: Men want it more. It’s not pleasurable for her. Everyone’s doing it apart from you. There’s no …

Condoms are an amazingly effective (and sometimes, downright sexy) addition to pleasure that make for safer sex, but that’s not all they’re good for; just check out the …

Cowgirl is one of those positions that tends to be very divisive; some swear by it as the perfect position to control penetration as well as their own …

There are some promises that are never meant to be kept. “I’ll meet you at the bar later after I’ve had a nap” is one. “I’m going to …