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Light & Dark: Kinky and Vanilla Suggestions to Add BDSM to the Bedroom

When any sex advice article offers ideas for trying something exciting in the bedroom, many readers will end up finding the suggestions either too tame or too wild―and ...

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What Makes A Good Submissive?

What Makes A Good Sub?

What makes a good sub? It’s a question that many submissively-inclined kinksters will struggle with at one point or another in their sex life: “Am I a good ...

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Six Myths about BDSM Debunked by Science

Six Myths about BDSM Debunked by Science

50 Shades of Grey may have brought kinky sex into the mainstream, but that doesn’t mean it dismantled the many myths and stereotypes around BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, ...

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Condoms & The Kink Community

Condoms & The Kink Community

Condoms have a bit of a reputation―one that LELO has charged itself with changing―as something necessary but decidedly unsexy. Ignoring the fact that there are some pretty sexy ...

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Get Tied Down: An Illustrated Guide to the Top 5 Handcuffed Sex Positions

Get Tied Down -The 4 Best Positions for Using Handcuffs

Handcuffs, be they silken and luxurious or plastic and fuzzy, are many people’s first introduction to bondage play. Whether you’ve since become more advanced, or are just looking ...

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Terms of Entanglement: A BDSM & Kink Glossary

Terms of Entanglement: A BDSM & Kink Glossary

The world of kink can be a little intimidating to curious beginners, even before you get inundated with all sorts of new terms, slang and acronyms. Below, we’ve ...

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The Psychology of Submission: Equal But Different

I imagine that anyone outside of the BDSM lifestyle, especially those who don’t practice Dominance and submission (D/s) look at those of us on the inside as strange ...

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Role Call: What are the Different Kinds of Dominants & Submissives?

BDSM, for the uninitiated, tends to call to mind a Fifty Shades of Grey-type relationship, between an experienced authoritarian male Dom and a naïve female submissive. However, there ...

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Some like it Hot: Ideas for Temperature Play

Whips, handcuffs, riding crops… All these BDSM accessories can turn off curious kink beginners, but BDSM doesn’t have to be brutal; temperature play can make for the perfect ...

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Giving Thanks – An Erotic Story of Spanking and Sex

The following short erotic fiction sees a British woman celebrating her first American Thanksgiving by giving thanks to her Dominant boyfriend for a good spanking. Read on… The ...

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