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Private & Professional BDSM Dungeons for Limitless Lust

You’re picturing the ‘Red Room’ from 50 Shades of Grey, aren’t you? And essentially, that is what a BDSM...

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A Starter Guide: What is a BDSM Scene?

So you’re on a journey, learning the BDSM lingo and educating yourself about the different aspects of BDSM life. How...

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All About International Kinky Day and the Praise Kink

International Kinky Day comes once a year (September 21), but keeps you coming all year round. It’s a day where...

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Breathing Down Someone’s Neck… in a Good Way! The Neck Fetish, Explained

There are a number of different things that can float one’s boat. We may not always find it arousing ourselves, but...

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Virtual BDSM: A Guide for Beginners

The BDSM scene has been growing for a number of years. Thanks to the internet, there are now so many more resources and...

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A Lil’ Bit of TLC: What is Sensual Domination?

Forget everything you may believe about domination and BDSM in the context of humiliation, discipline and pain. Sensual...

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The Female Gaze: The Thrill of Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM)

The notion itself: Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM), doesn’t exactly seem like anything special, does it? Picture a...

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Have You Tried Forced Masturbation Without Even Knowing It?

Most of us don’t particularly like to be forced into doing things. But when it comes to forced masturbation,...

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What is a Brat in the BDSM Community?

We’re all familiar with the term ‘brat’, right? And often it comes with negative connotations. But in a twist,...

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Post-Orgasm Torture, the Gateway to Even More Sexual Bliss?

Sure, the word ‘torture’ doesn’t really seem all that appealing, especially for those who aren’t in the BDSM...

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The Fun of Teasing and Denial

Sex is such a dang joy. When we’re deep in the moment with a partner and things go from hot to sizzling, sometimes it...

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Orgasm Denial, a Sexual Build-Up of Intense Pleasure

It may sound like a nightmare, but actually, engaging in orgasm denial (otherwise known as erotic sexual denial) is one...

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What’s a Masochist, and Am I One?

In sex and in life, there are those who seek pain or self-denial as a means for pleasure. On the sexual side of things,...

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The Beginner’s Guide to Shibari, Japanese Bondage Practice

If you’re familiar with the world of BDSM, then you’ve probably seen the community of BDSM practitioners...

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Everything You Need to Know About Caning

We could spend all day wondering what singular moment in our lives sparked our fantasies of rods and canes. Maybe it...

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The Primal Fetish, Explained

To be primal is connected to primal urges, such as protecting oneself or others from harm. It’s often used as a means...

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