Committed Relationship

Committed relationships are like love ferns, you need to constantly put in work to help them grow! Whether you’re in a rut or not, check out this helpful blog about relationships that has relationship advice among other steamy bedroom subjects.

How To Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship

Donna Turner and Dr. Laurie Mintz·August 17, 2017

This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow...

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Is It Normal To Fantasize About Other People During Sex?

Katy Thorn·August 3, 2017

Dear LELO, Lately, I’ve been finding harder and harder to ‘focus’ during sex. I’m still attracted to my boyfriend, but...

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How To Apply the 80/20 Principle to Your Relationship

Emma Sayle·June 2, 2017

Holding out for the perfect relationship? You’ll be waiting a long time, says Emma Sayle, a keen advocate of the 80/20 relationship rule When you wake from the post-coital early day trance and realize that your new partner is actually...

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When Infidelity Leads To Sexual Dysfunction – Guest Post from Dr. Tammy Nelson

Dr. Tammy Nelson·February 17, 2017

Many couples are choosing to stay in a marriage after an affair, for a variety of reasons. A cheating partner...

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Wonder Women: It’s Time to Stand United

Emma Sayle·July 20, 2016

We at LELO are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens, the members-only club that hosts female-oriented...

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Back to Basics: The Importance of Unplugging in an Era of Digital Sex

Emma Sayle·July 6, 2016

We at LELO are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens, the members-only club that hosts female-oriented sex parties around the world, to the Volonté blog as a guest author. Her first piece addresses the realities of...

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What’s His & What’s Hers: Disparity in Our Bedrooms

Katy Thorn·March 8, 2016

March 8th marks International Women’s Day, and the 2016 theme focuses on disparity between the genders, utilizing the #PledgeforParity as...

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From the Experts: The Importance of Fantasy in Relationships

Katy Thorn·February 5, 2016

Fantasies, whether consumed through erotica, or in the form of dirty talk and role play, tend to be thought of...

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Letting Sex Toys Come Between You: Using Sex Toys with Your Partner

Katy Thorn·November 24, 2015

While many people are comfortable with the idea of using sex toys for masturbation, not all have experienced the exciting twist that bringing sex toys into coupled play can have. Rather than replacing a partner, sex toys can serve as...

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