Dating

Dip your toes into the waters of seeing someone new with a dating blog dedicated to offering you a plethora of dating advice in order to help you find your person(s). Use these dating tips to overcome any challenges and get to the rewarding stuff!

Tinder, the Other Online Shopping Experience

Lea Marsden·January 18, 2018

Online shopping versus online dating – is there really even a difference? Turns out that no, there really isn’t one....

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How Jealousy & Comparison Affect Relationships – A Killing Kittens Guest Post

Emma Sayle·October 11, 2017

We at LELO are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens, the members-only club that hosts female-oriented sex parties...

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The Science of Desire: Why Subtracting Adds More

Katy Thorn·September 26, 2017

While everyone has moments when they are not as aroused as they’d like to be – whether mentally or physically – it turns out, we may be going about fixing the issue the ‘wrong way’ by thinking of all the...

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Sex ‘To-Do’ List To Fill Out Together

Katy Thorn·September 20, 2017

While getting to know the idiosyncratic facets of a new partner’s personality is half the fun of a new relationship,...

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5 of the Sexiest Ways to Spend 5 Minutes (If That’s All You Have)

Lea Marsden·September 5, 2017

Time is precious, and while we like to believe that we can always make time for marathon love-making sesh, the...

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How To Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship

Donna Turner and Dr. Laurie Mintz·August 17, 2017

This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. Website | Academics | Instagram While some people may not be entirely familiar with the...

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Is It Normal To Fantasize About Other People During Sex?

Katy Thorn·August 3, 2017

Dear LELO, Lately, I’ve been finding harder and harder to ‘focus’ during sex. I’m still attracted to my boyfriend, but...

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Packing for Pleasure – 5 Things to Bring to a Hook Up

Lea Marsden·July 13, 2017

If you’ve managed to successfully navigate some of the pitfalls of swipe-based apps and found someone you’d like to hook...

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When Infidelity Leads To Sexual Dysfunction – Guest Post from Dr. Tammy Nelson

Dr. Tammy Nelson·February 17, 2017

Many couples are choosing to stay in a marriage after an affair, for a variety of reasons. A cheating partner may not have to mean the end of the relationship. Getting over an affair can take time, insight and empathy. ...

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