BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

What Is Fisting? A Complete Guide to Safety, Technique, and Pleasure

Helena Lorimer·May 26, 2026

What is fisting? Fisting is when the hand, or entire fist, is inserted in the vagina or the anus for...

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What Is a Ruined Orgasm and How Can It Increase Pleasure?

Colin Hanna·May 16, 2026

A ruined orgasm is a sexual phenomenon where the physical contractions of a climax occur, but the accompanying peak of...

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The Pleasure Dom: How Sensual Domination Reinvents the Power Dynamic

Helena Lorimer·May 11, 2026

A pleasure dom (also known as a ‘sensual dom’ or ‘pleasure top’) is a dominant partner who leads through pleasure, sensation, and attentive care rather than intensity and pain. This soft, sensual approach to domination creates a power dynamic centred...

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What is CNC Play? A Definition of Consensual Non-Consent

Nicole Lane·February 28, 2026

Consensual non-consent, or CNC, is a form of sexual roleplay in which partners stimulate scenarios where consent appears absent. Still,...

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Is Erotic Spanking a Kink? Why It Feels Good

Katy Thorn·August 31, 2025

Spanking for pleasure is a common kink most often used both during foreplay and sex. There are many perspectives and...

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What is a Breeding Fetish And Why Do People Have Them?

Naima Karp·July 23, 2025

Many people put in careful time and effort to ensure they don’t get pregnant. But for some people, the risk of having a baby is a huge turn-on, and this fetish is more common than you’d think. Just scroll on...

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The Ultimate Guide to BDSM Toys

Helena Lorimer·July 1, 2025

BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, is a lifestyle that includes a variety...

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What Is a Smoking Fetish?

Natasha Weiss·June 30, 2025

For a long time, smoking was glamourized as something sexy. Think grainy boudoir images with pouty red lips puffing away...

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Top 10 BDSM Toys for Power Play

Naima Karp·June 2, 2025

Power play, which centers around consensual power exchange between a dominant and submissive partner, is at the heart of BDSM dynamics. Ultimately, a person surrenders control while the other takes it. But what are the best BDSM toys for power...

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