BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

Somnophilia – The Kink for Sleeping Sex

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. I recently came across a kink...

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Rape Fantasy: Undo the Taboo

Content warning: This article includes mentions of rape and sexual assault. Fantasies; those delicious little...

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Dominance: Does Topspace Exist?

They say it’s lonely at the top. When it comes to sex I’d disagree; it’s not lonely, but it can be dark. It can...

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The Ethics of Kink: Making Moral Sense of Sadomasochism

Very soon after its publication in 2011, ’50 Shades’ became a dirty word in the adult and kink communities and...

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Light & Dark: Kinky and Vanilla Suggestions to Add BDSM to the Bedroom

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. Everyone has their own comfort...

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S&M: Can Sadomasochism Equal Love?

Love, as we perceive it, is a chemical reaction. It’s a feeling, something that can be tangible in the form of a hug,...

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What Qualities Make a ‘Good’ Dominant?

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. Not too long ago, we published...

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18 Bondage Toys for Beginners & Experienced BDSM Enthusiasts

You’re here because either you’re intrigued by the notion of bondage, or BDSM in general, or you’re looking for a...

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Inside The Fascinating World of Flogging

Enter the world of a subculture that you perhaps know nothing about. That is, BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism,...

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12 Extreme Sex Practices (You Can Decide for Yourself)

What is extreme sex? Well, extreme sex is…the truth is, we can’t really say. Or rather, what we think is extreme...

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What is Self-Bondage?

You may be familiar with the term ‘bondage’ and other acts that belong to the BDSM lifestyle, and you may well love...

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LELO BOA Silk Pleasure Ties Review

If you are so over the cheap plastic handcuffs you got at your bachelorette party but still want to bring light bondage...

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LELO SENSUA Suede Whip Review

Whips and floggers are a perfect kinky addition to sex – they can add arousing tickly touches to the back of your...

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LELO SUTRA Chainlink Cuffs Review

We love using restraints – in many different sex positions! – but not all cuffs are created equal. The...

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LELO INTIMA Silk Blindfold Review

Whether you consider yourself pretty kinky, or definitely vanilla, you and your partner may nevertheless be looking to...

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Tongue-Tied: 6 Genuinely Interesting Kinky Things To Try

There was a piece about BDSM on morning TV the other day. It was all like, ‘ooh try a blindfold,’ ‘ahh try a...

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