BDSM Tips and Tricks for Beginners & Pros Spicing Things Up

Confinement Confidential: Four Bondage Fetishes Unwrapped

Bondage comes in all kinds of flavors and forms. Contrary to popular belief, it needn’t be all spiked leather cuffs and ball gags. Instead, this deeply erotic practice …

Yuletied: 5 Ideas for Kinky Holiday – Themed Role Play

There are many that might argue against the sexiness of this season, what with the heavy meals, shopping stress and extensive family obligations…yet there are an equal number …

What Makes A Good Submissive?

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. It’s a question that many submissively-inclined kinksters will struggle with at one point or another in …

Six Myths about BDSM Debunked by Science

50 Shades of Grey may have brought kinky sex into the mainstream, but that doesn’t mean it dismantled the many myths and stereotypes around BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, …

Condoms & The Kink Community

Condoms have a bit of a reputation―one that LELO has charged itself with changing―as something necessary but decidedly unsexy. Ignoring the fact that there are some pretty sexy …

Get Tied Down: An Illustrated Guide to the Top 5 Handcuffed Sex Positions

Get Tied Down - The Best Positions for Using Handcuffs

Are you an adventurous soul that craves excitement? Or are you possibly feeling the full effects of boredom in the bedroom? Great! Because now is the perfect time …

Terms of Entanglement: A BDSM & Kink Glossary

If you don’t know what BDSM is by now, it’s a type of erotic practice that involves bondage/disciple, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism. This kink has risen to popularity in …

The Psychology of Submission: Equal But Different

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. I imagine that anyone outside of the BDSM lifestyle, especially those who don’t practice Dominance and …

Role Call: What are the Different Kinds of Dominants & Submissives?

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. BDSM, for the uninitiated, tends to call to mind a Fifty Shades of Grey-type relationship, between an …

Some like it Hot: Ideas for Temperature Play

Whips, handcuffs, riding crops… All these BDSM accessories can turn off curious kink beginners, but BDSM doesn’t have to be brutal; temperature play can make for the perfect …