BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

The Psychology of Submission: Equal But Different

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. I imagine that anyone outside...

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Role Call: What are the Different Kinds of Dominants & Submissives?

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. BDSM, for the uninitiated,...

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Some like it Hot: Ideas for Temperature Play

Whips, handcuffs, riding crops… All these BDSM accessories can turn off curious kink beginners, but BDSM doesn’t...

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Fit to be Tied: 7 New Role Play Ideas that Incorporate Bondage

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. There’s no easier way to...

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What is BDSM Aftercare?

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. If you’re curious about...

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Hard Limits & Safe Words

Telling your partner about your fantasies can be one (nerve-wracking) thing, but actually deciding to go for it is...

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Turn up the Kink on Date Night

Date nights can inspire mixed feelings. On one hand, they are a relaxing and romantic respite from all the errands,...

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LELO in 50 Shades of Grey

Whips, floggers, restraints, blindfolds and sex toys. They’re the real stars of the 50 Shades movie and of EL...

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The Bondage Survey Results: BDSM Statistics!

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering ‘what does BDSM actually stand for’, it’s ‘brackets, digits,...

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Top 5 Sex Positions That Put HER in Control

We’ve shown you the best dominant sex positions that put him in control in the bedroom, but what about when you want...

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Top 5 Positions That Put HIM in Control

A recent BDSM survey revealed that over 60% of women fantasize about being dominated sexually, and whether you actually...

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What Is the Importance of Trust In BDSM?

The idea of good and bad when it comes to sex is entirely subjective, but it’s largely true to say that if ‘good’...

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Kinky Sex – Four Steps To Sensational Stimulation

Is a more exploratory sex life the key to a lifetime of passion? After reading Jessica Howe’s Kinky Sex –...

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LELO Explains Adult Spanking

Erotic spanking is now so ubiquitous to sex that there’s a good chance that even you, dear reader, have experienced...

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Passionate Pretending with Sexual Roleplay

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. Lust is diverse and personal,...

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The Basics of Bondage for Beginners

This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. If the word ‘bondage’...

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