BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

What Is “Sub Drop”? And How To Deal with It?

Colin Hanna·May 11, 2021

Have you ever experienced an emotional or physical high so great that it made coming back to the real world...

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Get Cuffed Up! Incorporating Handcuffs in Your Sex Life

Colin Hanna·January 8, 2021

There’s just something about restraint that’s so damn sexy. It’s a tantalizing proposition; being presented with pleasures right in front...

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What (and Why) Are Cock Cages?

Colin Hanna·December 19, 2020

Male chastity—the act of men avoiding or inhibiting their sexual desires—is a huge turn-on for guys seeking submission or building up to a much more explosive release later on. If you’re thinking of something like ‘No Fap November’, in which...

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Coming Down: Why Do Some Doms Experience Top Drop? And How Can Their Subs Support Them?

Helena Lorimer·November 1, 2020

Think about a time when you experienced a huge rush of positive and exciting emotions, like riding a roller coaster...

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End Kink Shaming & Be Kink Positive

Helena Lorimer·October 28, 2020

If you’ve read one of my previous articles, you’ll know that a kink and a fetish are two different things....

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Is a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) Right for You?

Nikita Andester·October 22, 2020

Every single relationship is unique – that’s what makes love so fantastic. Power dynamics, our little shared quirks, the way we approach our love – no two couples are identical when we slice apart how they function. Some love a...

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H is for Happy, Horny & Hogtied!

Helena Lorimer·August 15, 2020

For many of you, throwing the words ‘happy’ ‘horny’ and ‘hogtied’ into the same sentence seems like a stretch. Sure,...

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The Joys of Pain and Suffering – World BDSM Day

Donna Turner·July 24, 2020

Fifty shades of hip hip hooray! It’s BDSM Day. And what exactly does BDSM actually stand for? Well, there are...

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Somnophilia – The Kink for Sleeping Sex

Abby Moss and Dr. Laurie Mintz·March 26, 2020

I recently came across a kink known as somnophillia, or sleep kink. I’ve written extensively about all kinds of kinks in the past, there isn’t a lot left out there that shocks me. Or makes me feel uncomfortable. But this...

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