BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

Mum’s the Word! What’s the Appeal of Mummification Bondage?

Helena Lorimer·December 18, 2021

So, you’re somewhat of a bondage enthusiast, are you? All things that pertain to binding/being bound, tied up, and restrained...

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A Basic Introduction: What Does ‘BDSM’ Mean?

Helena Lorimer·November 26, 2021

There are more than a handful of articles on Volonté regarding different aspects of BDSM. But before you start reading...

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LELO Podcast: The World of BDSM

Donna Turner·November 25, 2021

In this episode, we are going deep into a powerful conversation about bedroom habits from the other side of the fence. We’ll discuss topics such as kink, BDSM, and how to find your place in all of it. Joining us...

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Simply the Breast! Engaging in Safe and Erotic Breast Bondage

Helena Lorimer·October 24, 2021

Did you know that the breasts, or more specifically, the nipples, are a huge erogenous zone? In fact, embracing the...

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High Protocol, You Either Love it or You Don’t!

Helena Lorimer·October 18, 2021

Are you a stickler for the rules? And when someone of authority commands something of you, what’s your reaction? Well,...

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Succumbing to the Lifestyle of Total Power Exchange (TPE)

Helena Lorimer·October 12, 2021

For some, giving up all control sounds like a nightmare. For others, it’s the ultimate form of freedom. So when two people in the BDSM community pair together, each holding one of these notions, the basic premise for a total...

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“Yes, Mistress!” The Mistress-Slave Relationship, Explained

Helena Lorimer·October 4, 2021

The majority of us have grown up in a world with imposed rules and regulations. And by following said-rules, we’re...

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A Closer Look at Shibari, or Japanese Rope Bondage

Colin Hanna·October 2, 2021

As a reader of this blog and someone who is obviously curious about the world of sex beyond just what...

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Private & Professional BDSM Dungeons for Limitless Lust

Helena Lorimer·September 24, 2021

You’re picturing the ‘Red Room’ from 50 Shades of Grey, aren’t you? And essentially, that is what a BDSM dungeon is… But of course, this book/film series fails to really get into the nitty gritty of what a BDSM dungeon...

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