BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.
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Confinement Confidential: Four Bondage Fetishes Unwrapped
Bondage comes in all kinds of flavors and forms. Contrary to popular belief, it needn’t be all spiked leather cuffs...
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What Makes a Good Submissive?
It’s a question that many submissively-inclined kinksters will struggle with at one point or another in their sex* life: “Am I a good submissive?” If you Google “good submissive” you’ll find any number of articles, forums and social media discussions...
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Six Myths about BDSM Debunked by Science
50 Shades of Grey may have brought kinky sex into the mainstream, but that doesn’t mean it dismantled the many...
5 mins read
Condoms & The Kink Community
Condoms have a bit of a reputation―one that LELO has charged itself with changing―as something necessary but decidedly unsexy. Ignoring...
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Get Tied Down: An Illustrated Guide to the Top 5 Handcuffed Sex Positions
Are you an adventurous soul that craves excitement? Or are you possibly feeling the full effects of boredom in the bedroom? Great! Because now is the perfect time to go on a sexual journey. Discovering and trying new things to...
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A List of All the Most Common BDSM Terms
If you don’t know what BDSM is by now, it’s a type of erotic practice that involves bondage/disciple, dominance/submission, and...
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The Psychology of Submission: Equal But Different
I imagine that anyone outside of the BDSM lifestyle, especially those who don’t practice Dominance and submission (D/s) look at...
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Role Call: What are the Different Kinds of Dominants & Submissives?
BDSM, for the uninitiated, tends to call to mind a Fifty Shades of Grey-type relationship, between an experienced authoritarian male Dom and a naive female submissive. However, there are a multitude of different power dynamics and relationship roles for kink...
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Temperature Play Ideas for Beginners
Whips, handcuffs, riding crops… All these BDSM accessories can turn off curious kink beginners, but BDSM doesn’t have to be...
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