BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

What (and Why) Are Cock Cages?

Colin Hanna·December 19, 2020

Male chastity—the act of men avoiding or inhibiting their sexual desires—is a huge turn-on for guys seeking submission or building...

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Coming Down: Why Do Some Doms Experience Top Drop? And How Can Their Subs Support Them?

Helena Lorimer·November 1, 2020

Think about a time when you experienced a huge rush of positive and exciting emotions, like riding a roller coaster...

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End Kink Shaming & Be Kink Positive

Helena Lorimer·October 28, 2020

If you’ve read one of my previous articles, you’ll know that a kink and a fetish are two different things. And today, we’ll be zoning in on the term: kink. First off… What Does ‘Kink’ Mean? A kink is something...

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Is a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) Right for You?

Nikita Andester·October 22, 2020

Every single relationship is unique – that’s what makes love so fantastic. Power dynamics, our little shared quirks, the way...

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H is for Happy, Horny & Hogtied!

Helena Lorimer·August 15, 2020

For many of you, throwing the words ‘happy’ ‘horny’ and ‘hogtied’ into the same sentence seems like a stretch. Sure,...

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The Joys of Pain and Suffering – World BDSM Day

Donna Turner·July 24, 2020

Fifty shades of hip hip hooray! It’s BDSM Day. And what exactly does BDSM actually stand for? Well, there are a few different variations, but here are the basics. B&D: bondage & discipline D/S: dominance/submission (and “switches” who engage in...

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Somnophilia – The Kink for Sleeping Sex

Abby Moss and Dr. Laurie Mintz·March 26, 2020

I recently came across a kink known as somnophillia, or sleep kink. I’ve written extensively about all kinds of kinks...

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Rape Fantasy: Undo the Taboo

Madison Lei·March 15, 2020

Content warning: This article includes mentions of rape and sexual assault. Fantasies; those delicious little half-truths we whisper to ourselves...

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Enhance Your Sex Life with Cosplay

Helena Lorimer·March 1, 2020

The cosplay subculture is one that’s definitely thriving. And it’s not rare to see cosplay enthusiasts going to all kinds of different lengths in order to immerse themselves into the cosplay world. Which is why the idea of cosplay sex...

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