Healthy Relationship

6 Steps for Pulling off the Perfect Night of Netflix & Chill

Look, we get it. Sometimes you genuinely want to binge-watch a show with a new buddy, and that’s totally cool....

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Your Boyfriend Found Your Vibrator – Now What?

So that fateful day has arrived. Your boyfriend, through either verbal or physical snooping, has discovered the...

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Long-Distance Love, Lust and Making it Last

These days, opportunity and circumstance are taking as to farther flung-out places for education, employment or what...

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5 Golden Rules for Having Sex with Your Ex

The main reason we at LELO all pile to our favorite Thai restaurant for lunch is the familiarity and security of...

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Do Jealousy & Comparison Really Get Us Anywhere? – A Killing Kittens Guest Post

We at LELO are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens, the members-only club that hosts...

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Yes, No & Maybe So: The Sexy To-Do List You Should Fill Out Together

While getting to know the idiosyncratic facets of a new partner’s personality is half the fun of a new relationship,...

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Is It Normal To Fantasize About Other People During Sex?

Dear LELO, Lately, I’ve been finding harder and harder to ‘focus’ during sex. I’m still...

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Here’s How to Apply the 80-20 Principle to Your Relationship

Holding out for the perfect relationship? You’ll be waiting a long time, says Emma Sayle, a keen advocate of the...

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Unsure about Consent? Here’s a Hollywood 101

Here’s the thing: consent is non-negotiable. But that’s not to say it can’t be sexy. In the context of a...

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When Infidelity Leads to Sexual Dysfunction – Guest Post from Dr. Tammy Nelson

Many couples are choosing to stay in a marriage after an affair, for a variety of reasons. A cheating partner may not...

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When Happy Relationships Lead to Male Dysfunction- Guest Post by Dr. Dan Watter

While common, erectile dysfunction can have a number of causes, not all of which are physiological.  Below, Dr. Dan...

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How Focusing on the Positive Can Lead to Better Sex – A Guest Post by Dr. Madeleine Castellanos

Dissatisfied with your sex life? I know how it can go. Maybe you find yourself wanting sex a little bit less with every...

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Premature Ejaculation: A Woman’s View

Premature ejaculation may seem like a guy’s problem—but it can also affect men’s sexual partners. Simply put,...

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Wonder Women: It’s Time to Stand United

We at LELO are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens, the members-only club that hosts...

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How to Talk to Your Partner About Non-Monogamy (and Other Practical Advice)

Whether purely sexual or involving romantic feelings with multiple people at once, non-monogamous relationships (like...

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Is Polyamory Right for You? 8 Questions to Help You Decide

As polyamory and other open relationships options become more visible, more and more people are wondering if that could...

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