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LELO How-to: Have Multiple Orgasms

It’s true that too much of a good thing can be bad for us, but when it comes to orgasms, we believe that the sky is the limit. And given people within the medical community claim that at least 200 orgasms a year is good for your health, there’s no reason not to at least try having one, two, three or even fourgasms!

Not every woman experiences regular multiple orgasms, but ben wa balls or products like  LUNA Smart Bead™, can certainly help. If you can reach one orgasm per sexual encounter, having more is potentially within your grasp. You don’t need us to tell you that multiplying your orgasms is a handy trick to have mastered for an extra-special sensual situation.

Multiply Your Orgasms

Slow Down & Get Comfortable

One of the secrets to achieving orgasms in general, let alone a number of them in one session, is your comfort. Make sure your immediate surroundings are optimal for orgasms – and if that means simply tidying up, then by all means do it.

Once everything’s in place, take your time to tease yourself to the point that you’ve GOT TO have sex. Build that intensity, getting right to the point of climax and then stop. Do this once or twice to heighten the intensity while preparing your body for multiple pleasures.

Change Your Mind

Think plurally, and enter the intimate encounter with a positive outlook that is open to having more than one orgasm. This healthy mindset will get you tuned in to a mind-body connection that keeps you switched on mentally and sexually after your first climax, and ready for more.

Clear Your Mind

Now that you’re thinking about more than one orgasm – stop thinking about it! Avoid going into your lovemaking session with a goal-oriented mindset; forget about your O and just focus on what feels good – more often than not, the rest will follow.

Vary the Technique, Not the Focus

You know how you take your pleasure, and whether G-spot stimulation or clitoral massage is what gets you off, go with what you know.

After your first orgasm is achieved though, switch up the method, but not the focus area. For instance, if you just climaxed via clitoral stimulation, continue that kind of massage, but change sexual positions or the massage stroke and pressure you just climaxed with.

As with everything sex related, however, communication is key for this tip.


Make sure you’re in tip-top shape down there by keeping your Kegels tight and toned, because when you break it down, your orgasm is actually an intense contraction of your pelvic floor muscles. Keeping them strong will increase blood flow to your nether areas and make repeated muscle contractions possible, so get started on your personal pelvic fitness routine.

We’ll give our final piece of advice in the form of a well-known nursery rhyme about searching for multiple orgasms:

‘Whether you have one, a ton or even none,
Trying to multiply your orgasms is fun!’*

*We just made that up.


About Donna Turner

Donna is a Volonté contributor and freelance writer who lives in San Francisco with her husband and two sons. Her work has appeared in Psychology Today, Go! Magazine (Australia) and is regularly featured in the San Francisco Herald.


  1. Have been using Hitachi Magic Wand since 1976 when they were manufactured in Japan.
    What is LELO’s most powerful vibrator on the market? I require external stimulation ONLY!
    Thank you.

  2. I can have multiple orgasms very easily. Anywhere between 5 to 122 , I’ve never used any sort of equipment to help me with these just my own hands. But I was wondering what I could accomplish if I did use some electronic help?

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