Familiar with a bucket list? You know, a list of things you simply must do before you die? Maybe you want to visit Thailand. Perhaps you’d like to go swimming with dolphins or get a tattoo? The beauty of a bucket list is that it can be as personal and meaningful as you want it to be. A bucket list is unique, and will be different for everyone.
On the racier sides of things, ever heard of or fancy having a sex bucket list? It’s essentially the same as a bucket list, except all of the items are exclusively sexual. And isn’t that the joy of being alive anyway? Curating your very best (sex) life because you’re sexual, joyful, beautiful, and worthy?
With that, we’ve created the ultimate sex bucket list so that you can pick and choose according to your most lustful desires. And even though it’s fun to read through everything on our list, you don’t have to add them all. In fact, you could add one, two, five, or 50 of these ideas to your list. It’s totally up to you, how you enjoy pleasure, and what you’re intrigued about trying before you, you know, kick the bucket.
And remember: sex isn’t just p-in-v penetration! Sex is intimacy, whatever you perceive that to be. Let’s begin with some tame and some not-so-tame activities to turn up the heat, shall we?
Before You Go: Get Kinky! 100 Sex Bucket List Ideas for All Kinds of Fun
- Masturbate
- Use a sex toy
- Watch porn
- Have a one night stand
- Go on a nude camping holiday
- Have romantic sex
- Have sex whilst looking into your partner’s eyes
- Get intimate with someone younger or older than you
- Get sexy with someone from another country
- Go to a strip club
- Engage in mutual masturbation
- Have break up sex
- Have rough sex
- Go skinny dipping
- Have sex in water
- Try anal sex
- Use anal sex toys
- Have phone sex
- Send dirty text messages and/or photos
- Have video call sex
- Have sex in a car
- Engage in road head
- Have sex outside
- Give hotel sex a go
- Be intimate while fully clothed
- Use a sex toy in public
- Use food during your intimate time
- Try spanking
- Use blindfolds to heighten other sensations
- Make out like teenagers
- Have sex on a boat
- Use a sex toy during penetrative sex
- Use a cock ring during penetrative sex
- Try nipple clamps
- Engage in deepthroat
- Massage the prostate
- Try tantric massage
- Play with temperature play
- Have a threesome
- Have date night without wearing underwear
- Engage in a footjob
- Try hair pulling during sex
- Use restraints to tease your partner
- Give or receive a rim job
- Try pegging
- Leave marks or bruises on your partner
- Try playing with dominant and submissive roles
- Experiment with cosplay sex
- Enjoy facesitting
- Have sex only wearing boots
- Give or receive a lap dance
- Engage in different role playing scenarios
- Sex with the element of voyeurism or exhibitionism
- Experiment with age play
- Have sex in total silence
- Try orgasm denial
- Have sex in a club
- Try consensual non-consent sex, like rape role play
- Be intimate in your childhood bedroom
- Get creative using household items for your sexy play
- Try positions from the Kama Sutra
- Practice squirting
- Have sex in front of a mirror
- Go to a swingers club
- Have an entire weekend of sleep, food, and sex
- Have sex in a foreign country
- Go to a sex convention
- Try fisting
- Only engage in foreplay
- Wake your partner up by giving them oral sex
- Try using a sex swing
- Have sex in every room of the house
- Try double penetration either in a threesome or with a toy plus partner
- Touch your partner inappropriately in public
- Take pole dancing lessons and show off your skills
- Orgasm with nipple play alone
- Put focus on the perineum
- Play sex games
- Play kinky kissing games
- Wash each other erotically in the shower
- Spend the whole day naked together
- Experiment with crossdressing
- Have very loud, uninhibited sex
- Get sexy in front of a glass window
- Read erotica to each other
- Do the 69 sex position
- Use a massage candle
- Have sex standing up
- Act out your biggest sexual fantasy
- Act out a sex scene
- Make a sex tape
- Use a male masturbator
- Get a vagina tattoo or penis tattoo
- Use a penis extender
- Try edging for more powerful orgasms
- Try the Amazon sex position
- Experiment with breath play
- Get a genital piercing
- Tap into the cuckold kink
- Experience a golden shower
- See how long you can last without reaching climax
- Use body paint to create sexy art
- Try a Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM)
- Give breast bondage a try
- Be a brat during play time
- Try post-orgasm torture
- Enjoy the ultimate Porn Star Experience (PSE)
- Have a gang bang
- Try the Kivin method during cunnilingus
- Have you thought of something that isn’t on the list? Drop it in the comments below!
Surely, you’ve found a handful of sensual, sexual, and delicious things you’d like to try? We’re sure you’ll have immeasurable amounts of fun ticking off every single thing on your sexy to-do list. Enjoy, and remember to always play safe!
